Should I feel discouraged
My birthday is coming up and I'm not really excited. My last birthday I had it all going for me. I had just graduated college, got situated into a good job, had a girlfriend who loved me unconditionally, etc but between now and then, It all fell apart. Lost everything in life but the job and the job hasnt been going the best. The job is trending up again now but with my birthday coming up again I'm scared the year won't be what I want/need it to be. Is it ok to feel discouraged or should I feel optimistic again?
Hello there @Snail60,
I really think it's alright to feel whatever you feel, but it's good that you are trying to be on the right track and make things right for yourself. I'm really sorry this last year wasn't so great and I imagine that your birthday coming up sort of made you think about this all and remember how much things have changed.
I think it can be a good moment to try to think what steps you could take right now to make your life a bit better :) Perhaps there are things you could change for better, maybe take up new hobbies, make space for some things and reprioritize, you know better. But it.s alright to also feel down and take your time.
I hope it will all turn out well!
Take care :)