The person I call when I am feeling down is....
My boyfriend, though I don't get to talk to him very much now because he's been deployed
My best friend, she herself struggles with anxiety and depression and so understands more than anyone else I know.
No one actually 💔
@powerfulScarf5537 you have all us on here ❤️ *hugs*
@SammyLouise aw that was sweet of u 💕
@powerfulScarf5537 I understand how you feel
@powerfulScarf5537 have you tried looking for a helpline? I don't have anyone in my life to confide in so I usually call kids help phone it really helps. You should try something like that.☺
My best friend although I feel so guilty for burdening her with my problems all the time
I don't have a person who I can call when I'm down. It isn't fun. All of my former friends don't really like me anymore and my closest friend is in a different state, and is very busy. I really want to meet that one person that helps me through everything tough but I don't have that. I've come to realize that I don't even have that many friends anymore thanks to a fight with a former friend. But at least I now know they didn't care about me that much. I sorta hate it but there isn't a lot I can try to do about it. I would like to know if anyone feels the same way and if you are willing could you talk with me about it since I guess we could help each other.
@carefulTree4119
Gosh babe! I'm so sorry you are going thru that. It hurts my heart cuz I can totally relate. It's a lonely, empty feeling when you can't obtain meaningful interaction with people. Also, it sucks being blackballed because of a situation that had nothing to do with anyone else. Feels like high school drama. Maybe you could use this as an opportunity to take a break from.people and cleanse yourself of all their toxicity. Do you have any hobbies, projects, goals, needs? Recently, a listener said something that made me see how hard on myself I am. He encouraged me to be honest with myself. I am trying to hard to be perfect. I unintentionally overwhelm myself and take on too much. Now every day I make a list of priorities, I evaluate whether it's time sensitive or even necessary at all. I'm exploring my feelings instead of the event that caused them. I'm learning how to love myself again. I hope you can utilize the resources on this site and anywhere else, to find your inner strength and determination. It's there I promise, sometimes it's buried pretty deep but it's there. You have made a huge accomplishment just coming here and reaching out. PROUD OF YOU.
@Need2findMe
Thank you so much for your encouragement and advise. I thought trying to keep old and not functioning friendships going was what I had to do but I should just put all that in the past and focus on the future.
@carefulTree4119
You matter. You are extremely important. Seek out what makes you feel fulfilled. If you leave a situation ans feel unsure or bad about yourself, you are with the wrong company. The past is done. The future isn't here yet. In this moment, the things you choose will build your future.
My best friend. The best listener I know.
nobody...or random online stranger
My cat :)
I'm getting rid of this app. It's not helping.. Just a bunch of assholes who don't care.
My boyfriend or one of my two best friends experiencing the same thing as me