What am I supposed to do?
Hi everyone, hope you're all having a good day.
I'm in a stressful situation. I'm in my 30's and I live with my mom who's a narcissist. I can't seem to make enough money to get out on my own. I'm constantly being manipulated and accused of things that I haven't done. It's exhausting living with someone like this. I thought parents were supposed to love you not manipulate you. My only two options are living with my abusive parent or being homeless.
Jobs never work out for me. I can't find anything I like doing and I don't have the money to move somewhere and pursue other opportunities.
How am I supposed to be successful in this country when I can't even afford a 1 bedroom apartment?
Encouragement is welcomed. Thank you.
𝑖𝑛𝑡𝑢𝑖𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑒𝐻𝑖𝑐𝑘𝑜𝑟𝑦2911！
𝐼 𝑗𝑢 𝑡 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑝𝑜 𝑡 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑢𝑟𝑒 𝑖𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑡𝑖𝑙𝑙 ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝐼 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑡𝑒𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑎𝑦 𝐼’𝑚 𝑜 𝑜𝑟𝑟𝑦 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑖 ． 𝐼 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑖𝑡’ 𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦 𝑎𝑤𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑜 𝑑𝑒𝑚𝑎𝑛𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑏𝑙𝑎𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔． 𝐼 𝑎𝑔𝑟𝑒𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑢𝑝𝑝𝑜 𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑔𝑢𝑖𝑑𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎 𝑤𝑒𝑙𝑙． 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦 𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑖 𝑑𝑖𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦 𝑡𝑟𝑖𝑐𝑡 𝑟𝑢𝑙𝑒 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑛 𝑖𝑡 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑖𝑟 ℎ𝑜𝑢 𝑒， 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑛 𝑎𝑦 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑖𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑜𝑙𝑑 𝑒𝑛𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ 𝑡𝑜 𝑚𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑜𝑢𝑡．𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑑𝑜 𝑡ℎ𝑖 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢 𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑦 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑖𝑡 ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑑 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑢 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑡𝑢𝑐𝑘 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒． 𝐼 𝑑𝑜𝑛’𝑡 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑡𝑟𝑦 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝐼 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑚𝑎𝑛𝑦 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑐𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑒 ℎ𝑖𝑔ℎ 𝑖𝑛 𝑟𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑖𝑛 𝑑𝑒𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑑 𝑤𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒． ℎ𝑜𝑤 𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑎 𝑓𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖 𝑤ℎ𝑖𝑙𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑏𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑟𝑜𝑜𝑚𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑝𝑒𝑟 𝑜𝑛 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝 𝑒𝑎𝑐ℎ 𝑜𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑜𝑢𝑡． 𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑡𝑖𝑚𝑒 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑎 𝑟𝑜𝑜𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑒𝑛 𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑖 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑑． 𝑙𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝐼 𝑎𝑖𝑑 𝑖𝑡 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑑𝑒𝑝𝑒𝑛𝑑 𝑤ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑏𝑒𝑐𝑎𝑢 𝑒 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑎𝑟𝑒𝑎 𝑎𝑟𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑎𝑚𝑒． 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝐼 ℎ𝑜𝑝𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑖𝑡𝑢𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑖 𝑟𝑒 𝑜𝑙𝑣𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑖𝑓 𝑚𝑎𝑦𝑏𝑒 𝑔𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑎 𝑟𝑜𝑜𝑚𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑖 𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑢 𝑒 𝑗𝑢 𝑡 𝑡𝑎𝑙𝑘 𝑡𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟 𝑚𝑜𝑚 𝑒𝑒 𝑖𝑓 ℎ𝑒 𝑖 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒 𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝑡𝑎𝑛𝑑𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑒． 𝑚𝑎𝑦𝑏𝑒 ℎ𝑒’ 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑔ℎ 𝑎 ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑑 𝑖𝑡𝑢𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑎𝑐𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑖 𝑤𝑎𝑦 𝑡𝑜𝑤𝑎𝑟𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢．
