feeling bad vibes from someone, need advice
so, someone added me in another platform.
we had a conversation.
they said some things with smug emotes that made me start feeling bad vibes from them.
when i expressed confusion, they apologized with a smug emote next to it, making me wonder if their apology was genuine
anyway, i really feel like getting rid of this person; but at the same time, i think i would want to give them a bit of chance and see how our interactions go before i ultimately decide if getting rid of them is the best decision or not.
sadly here's the dilemma. i REALLY want to get rid of them but at the same time, i also want to see how things would go between us
any advice?
also sorry if this sounded pathetic
@exuberantNickel1157
I would say that is up to you. To me it seems as though the person seems a little shady and very negative. That is my take from the emoji that the person was sending. If you don't feel comfortable moving forward this person nothing says that you have to. Be where you feel comfortable.
@neatNickel2352 I was very stressed and a listener wanted to know if I was indian and i said no then there was silence!
@humorousEast820
That was wrong and very hurtful. I hope that didn't affect you long. Other people's prejudices having nothing to do with you. That is the spirit of that person. With or without ignorance. You walk blessed in your steps.
@exuberantNickel1157 from personal experience, it's always best to trust your gut instinct in these scenarios
if you literally feel bad vibes from someone, usually, again from unfortunate past experiences in my case, the more chances you give them, the worse the bad vibes get...
again, totally your choice
always trust your feelings in this case though
@exuberantNickel1157
I would say your instinct had alert you about that person so dont be get attached take time and keep in mind while you converse further. Observe that person.. atleast you would not be blindfolded as your instinct alert you for something.
Than you decide. If feeling of getting ride become strong than letting go of that person is good.
From my past experience people play well .. they drop a hint and check us how we react. If we behave as they expected they continue with the behavioir if we react they back step for sometime and again try..
If he or she seem behaving like that the person is player be away than.
@exuberantNickel1157
Hey Nickel. That's good you want to give a chance to them. But they don't know you gave a chance and you want to see till where the journey goes but they don't.
If you want good bonding then meet someone else. Trust me I have been in your situation. They will take you to a bad image. It will hurt you badly. It will affect your inner peace. Believe in you. Move on. Meet new people . rest is left to u Nickel.
thanks for the support and advices everyone. sorry i've not been around to respond.
but i've decided to bite the bullet and give this guy a chance. so far things have been going kinda well; but if things go south, i will part ways with the person.
once again, thank you all for the kind words 