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ive never had any friends

User Profile: ahhlo
ahhlo February 16th, 2022

ive never had any friends even in preschool, no one would play with me i had to sit alone by myself and wait for my parents to pick me up


my whole life has always gotten worse people told me (online) that it would get better eventually but it neve rhas and now i dont see how it could ever get better, my life is ruined, i wish i was someone esle

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User Profile: FrozenGhost
FrozenGhost February 22nd, 2022

Hello ahhlo,

It's not easy, what you are going through. I understand the loneliness and terrible isolation of having no friends. I've not found a way forward, but I have learned that you cannot passively wait for things to get better, you have to try and make them better. Don't wish to be someone else, ahhlo, just be the best version of yourself that you can be. I wish you all good things! Stay strong! <3

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User Profile: ahhlo
ahhlo OP February 22nd, 2022

@FrozenGhost I TRIED AND NOTHING WROKED IT ONLY MADE THINGS WORSE


DONT ASSUME THAT YOU KNWO WHAT IVE DONE


YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHIGN

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User Profile: friendlyYam
friendlyYam March 11th, 2022

why do you keep shouting????

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User Profile: Rei045
Rei045 March 3rd, 2022

Hello do you want me to be your friend? Even though its online and not real life


If you would like you can have a chat with me regarding your problem

User Profile: KBeauty12
KBeauty12 March 10th, 2022

There are different stages to friendship, are you looking for something long lasting?.


I can relate a bit, I cant say I have no friends, but there are pple I talk too.


I remember, I always wanted to fit in and trying to hold on to friendships, (forcing friendship). What hurts even more, is that you can sense when someone doesnt reciprocate back that feeling, I am not going to deny, it hurts and sometimes it makes me feel like putting up a wall, u know to protect your heart. I am still working on this to this day, because I dont want to come across as a needy or too attach person (if you know what I mean)...


There must be someone you talk too, if not, I am not saying to change, but improve on yourself. Are there certain ways that is causing pple not to be drawn to me. So it's like a self evaluation. Ok, I hope this helps...it is not the perfect answer, but it is a suggestion.

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User Profile: ahhlo
ahhlo OP March 10th, 2022

@KBeauty12

i have no friends no acquantainces i havent talked toa nyone in a long time i cant remember when


people dont like me because i have social anxiety and i have no friends, i was born this way i cant change it

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User Profile: calmPerson5600
calmPerson5600 March 10th, 2022

@ahhlo

I can sort of understand you, I have also been in the same situation

Let's be friends if you want