Crush vent : /
The thing that I'm fascinated about when it comes to my brain is how easily my amygdala stops my prefrontal cortex's function. Like when I feel a strong emotion, it's hard for me to focus on anything else. Like starting or finishing tasks, and even hobbies can feel unpleasant to do.
But I guess right now it's caused by an upsetting event of me confessing to my crush and him giving unclear responses (and then he said that he was shocked and speechless) and now he keeps giving me one word responses. I also told him I got diagnosed with autism a month ago
He used to be all cute and nice to me back in 10th grade (He used to like me first but I was insecure about myself. But he always been emotionally avoidant by the way). And now in 11th grade, idk what's going on with him. Maybe he moved on from his feelings after all.
@TheSweetNight
It's always stressful when you admit you like someone and they give an unclear answer (or a negative answer). I'd say, just be patient in this instance and be your own cool self. Maybe he needs time to figure out how he wants to respond. If you show you can be patient about it, it gives him more confidence to give you a positive response.
If he ends up saying he's not interested in you anymore, don't take it personal. Like's can come and go. This is a time to learn the relationship basics, so missing out on one relationship opportunity isn't going to make or break up. Keep a positive attitude and things are going to turn out well, however he responds.
Yeah thanks, well I talked to him in person and he said that he was speechless and don't know what to say and I asked him if I made him uncomfortable and he said he's just fine. But he never gave me a clear, straightforward response and he seems dismissive and avoidant so I figured he's not the type of guy I want anyway
@TheSweetNight
Sounds like a positive outcome. You didn't get any relationship but you did get some useful information.