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Acting on paranoia (agression)

User Profile: Tonyk1988
Tonyk1988 June 14th, 2025

Can anyone relate to acting aggressively when you feel people ate abusing you? Over the past 10 years I've made some pretty bad mistakes when I think people are stalking me or out to get me.

I feel like I don't have any control over my reaction after my anger reaches a certain point. I feel im doomed to be homeless or in prison or worse one day. Has anyone got over extreme anger ?

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User Profile: Voodvins
Voodvins June 15th, 2025
@ Tonyk1988 Yes, it is a very difficult situation. Especially when you are a little paranoid and you feel like you are under a lot of control and everyone is watching you. It is incredibly difficult, especially if inside you are very aggressive towards them. It is normal in some situations, after traumas, stress, etc. But it should be processed or stay inside. Do not let it out. They can be the worst in the world, but they are not worth wasting your nerves on. Look, there are many techniques to deal with nerves, such as breathing, counting to 10, etc. And of course, working with your thoughts would be right. But the main thing is not to give free rein to desires under any circumstances. Unless it is about physical self-defense. Good luck
User Profile: karilinas
karilinas June 15th, 2025

Hi! Thank to God, i never had beed agressive. I supouse it is because my family is peaceful , and we get not used to fight and shout. I dont know, just guess

User Profile: Kaiquedrum999
Kaiquedrum999 June 15th, 2025
@Tonyk1988 sim...
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User Profile: Tonyk1988
Tonyk1988 OP June 15th, 2025

What does Sim mean?

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User Profile: Anu00mettu
Anu00mettu June 18th, 2025

I always felt myself acting while nobody is watching especially while crying idk why but I do.i feel maybe my tears are fake am a fake person...

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User Profile: Tonyk1988
Tonyk1988 OP June 18th, 2025

Maybe you can get help with how you feel. Ive learned over the years that judging myself as wrong or bad doesn't really help me grow as a person. It actually just reinforces the negativity.

Maybe you can be kinder to yourself even if it feels like you are wrong or fake and stuff? I know without the ability to be fair and forgiving to myself I would have never made it with all that I deal with. So.e peoe in the world actually thrive off of others suffering and it's sad. Be kind to yourself..there is good for you in the world and good in you...no doubt

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User Profile: sereneSeal3073
sereneSeal3073 July 4th, 2025

I can feel how heavy the burden you carry is. When someone has been hurt before, it's normal if their body and mind always feel like they have to protect themselves. You are not a bad person. You were just hurt too deeply, and now you're trying to protect yourself in the way you know. I don’t know exactly what you’ve been through, but I believe.. that part of you just wants to feel safe. And that’s valid. You’re still here today, and that means you’re strong, even if you don’t feel it now. If you’re brave enough to share this, that’s already an amazing step. I believe you can slowly get to know yourself again. And if you need someone to listen, I’m here