No friends here
Ive always struggled to make friends. People always saw something was wrong with me or tried to paint me as the bad guy. Its led me to be very resentful and have a hard time talking to people and push them away or pull away. Anyone going through this as well?
@compassionateWriter3844
You are welcome here!
You are not the bad guy.
You matter 💚😊
@compassionateWriter3944
When I was in highschool and in middle school I was singled out a lot because I was (and still am) a quiet person. If I gave them some sort of reason to hate me, they would take that chance. This was part of the reason why I always hated group assignments. I just always wanted to do them individually. Not only that but most of the time when I was out in a group with people who didn't care, I was usually the one doing the most work. It's been like this for a long time so I also have a hard time talking to people face to face. It's like every time I talk to a stranger it feels like I'm being someone I'm not by smiling and talking lol. After a while if we become friends I push them away as well because it feels like they don't know the real me and I let them believe the facade I put up.
@compassionateWriter3844
Hey, I can relate to the last part of being unable to be your true self, and pushing them away because they don't know the real me. I started to work on showing the real sides of me so I filter people around me and let only those who love and accept me as who I am around me, and it makes sense.
Hey, I can relate to the last part of being unable to be your true self, and pushing them away because they don't know the real me. I started to work on showing the real sides of me so I filter people around me and let only those who love and accept me as who I am around me, and it makes sense.
Yeah it’s hard for me to make a lot of friends too and because I haven’t been in school at all I’m at home so much that people are like foreign to me so when I go out I have anxiety and it feels so weird
Me too.
Me too
Nothing wrong with us 😓
I went through this and my friendship lofe was getting wider as I grew up. Later, I could understand that I'm not bad as they think and it is just that I'm special and not common as them.