hey guys
if u have to choose between 2 people who will u choose
the one who is madly in love with you or the person whom you madly love
The person your madly in love with. You can't help who you fall madly in love with or just love. The person who's madly in love with you, should respect your feelings and decisions and let what's going to happen. And still be your friend.
@Anyakn0625 The person who I madly love. It depends on the scenario actually but if it’s in an event, let’s say where I gotta protect or care for them or something, I would choose the one I love.
but then you have to be unhappy everytime
@Anyakn0625
I hope the person who i madly love loves me madly too XD
Nobody loves me.
don't say like that
god maxe us in pairs
@Anyakn0625
someone who loves me because I'm sick and tired of loving people only for me to find out I've been wasting my time lol 😅
you should try more loving yourself
@Anyakn0625 Its like choosing between the right and left arm, isn't it? :) i would pick the one who loves me, because the idea of being with someone who feels absolutely nothing for me, terryfies me. But in reality, obviously i couldn't be with smeone i don't love. so i would choose neither. Or both - ideally! :) <3 interesting question!
but u have to choose one at last
love is not mad
“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 ESV
but this is not answer
@Anyakn0625 There maybe many people who we love, and can do it our whole life, no matter if it's one sided or unreciprocated. It is our strength to love others, it's a beautiful gift. However, it's not gonna allow you to experience mutual love. People who love us, are vey rare in life, they are meant to be treasured because when you fall down, they'll be the ones to pick you up, they will teach you to nurture yourself and others, they will make you see, the goodness within you. We need love, so choose people who love you, you don't really have to think twice.
@KindleMissie @colourfulUnicorn4617 @JainAviral @GarudaOfTheSkies @kabir22 who'd you choose??🤨
@Boon4U @Anyakn0625
That's quite the philosophical dilemma, isn't it? Choosing between being loved deeply and loving deeply taps into the essence of human connection.
If I had to make that impossible choice, I’d go with the person who's madly in love with me. Not because it’s the easy route, but because there’s something undeniably beautiful about being adored with that kind of intensity. Imagine someone who sees you on your worst days, hair a mess, mood even messier, and still looks at you like you hung the stars. There’s a magic in that, a kind of magic that can teach you to see yourself through kinder eyes.
Don’t get me wrong, the idea of madly loving someone has its own pull—the thrill, the passion, that heartbeat-skipping chaos. But love that comes at you with patience, unwavering affection, and the ability to love you even when you can’t love yourself? That’s the kind of story I’d want to live.
Because sometimes, you need to let someone else’s love remind you just how much you deserve it. And who knows? Maybe that kind of love can spark a fire of your own, one that’s just as fierce, warm, and all-encompassing.
So, that's my take.
@kabir22 sir the poet in you is quite impressive. 👍
nice way to convince someone but what if whom you love have this thinking isn't it awkward that you have to someone that doesn't love you but they accpet you than you will feel like you have to force them to love you they only love you becuz you love them??
@Boon4U
Ooooh WoW, this is tough!😁 Well🤔 if both of these make me stress about who to choose then first I will really appreciate the efforts of of the person who loved and thought about me and will do something nice for them as a payback, then I am going solo loving myself and taking a self care break😂 I guess, I will be like this or maybe something unpredictable😆 I am not sure, but that’s just weird me 😅☺️
nice thinking you got its a nice pov
@Anyakn0625 Neither one. If I have to choose someone, it would be a woman who fulfils the basic requirements. (I don't have very many)
i think its the same thing
@Anyakn0625 if I had to make that choice, I would not choose any of the possible options, which is kind of unfair to the question, but I'm sure I could just not choose anyone. I would prefer to be in a complete, two-sided, unconditional relationship, rather than either pleasing someone else's wish or trying to convince someone to love me.