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Depression Support Check-In: March 11th-14th, 2021

User Profile: kdsyahirah
kdsyahirah March 13th, 2021

Hi everyone. I hope all of you have been doing well. I'm truly sorry that I check-in with all of you later than I did before. My week has been hectic and despite of that, I barely check my notifications in here and forget my tasks. It shouldn't be an excuse for myself so I'm very sorry for my inconvenience.

Here are your check-in questions:

1) How is everything? Good? Worse? Nothing special? Tell us about it.

2) What are your top priorities that you want to achieve in the near future?

3) What movie or tv show Have you seen recently that you would recommend and why? Don't give spoilers laugh

Now we have come to an end in our check-in with me today. Thank you everyone for attending and I love all of you so much. Your voice and opinions are truly appreciated and valuable. Until next time, stay safe and take care. Remember that we're here for you. *sending love heart to everyone *

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User Profile: placidKitten770
placidKitten770 March 13th, 2021

@kdsyahirah

1) How is everything? Good? Worse? Nothing special? Tell us about it.

Nothing special. Just sad and be better, again again and again. That makes me tired.

2) What are your top priorities that you want to achieve in the near future?

I don't know so clearly.

3) What movie or tv show Have you seen recently that you would recommend and why? Don't give spoilers

I haven't watched movie recently but maybe I'll find ones

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 15th, 2021

I can understand why it makes you tired. This all takes so much energy. I get tired too. But you are making it and that matters. You are stronger than you know. @placidKitten770

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windSpirit March 13th, 2021

1) How is everything? Good? Worse? Nothing special? Tell us about it.

Nothing special. Just trying to rest after a tiring week.

2) What are your top priorities that you want to achieve in the near future?

To get better on my work, mainly. To make myself better. To be able to be helping to others.

3) What movie or tv show Have you seen recently that you would recommend and why? Don't give spoilers laugh

Hmm, I don't feel I'd recommend anything as I did not watch many recently. Maybe, it was only the movie called LUCY but I would not say it is great.

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User Profile: ResourcefulMaple8135
ResourcefulMaple8135 March 13th, 2021

@windSpirit

I never watched LUCY but I have been wanting to watch it for a long time. That came out like 7 years ago haha I been waiting to see what it is exactly.

User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 15th, 2021

I hope that you have gotten some good rest this weekend. @windSpirit

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ResourcefulMaple8135 March 13th, 2021

@kdsyahirah

💜 How is everything? Good? Worse? Nothing special?

Worse tbh I just miss my boyfriend so much, and I can't talk to him for a long long time. He makes me feel so happy and makes every negative thought disappear. But now that I can't talk to him for a while😕 All my negative thoughts come back at me all at once, and it makes me super depressed and empty. I feel like nothing without him.

💜 What are your top priorities that you want to achieve in the near future?

Maybe to try more in school, and get missing work in. I feel no motivation lately so I guess to get more motivation to do things. I don't know how to get more motivation though.

💜 What movie or tv show have you seen recently that you would recommend and why?

Maybe Walking Dead I haven't been able to watch any tv lately. But that is the most recent show I watched. It get's pretty sad at times and makes me cry or get upset when something happens in the show. It's great though I love it. But it can get pretty gross at times so would not recommend to people who hate seeing blood.

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 15th, 2021

What is making it hard to talk to your boyfriend? Are you able to email or text one another? Sometimes that helps a bit. But it is hard to be at a distance for any length of time. @ResourcefulMaple8135

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ResourcefulMaple8135 March 15th, 2021

@bestVase7265

Nope his parents hate me :/ And banned him from the internet for 2 years pretty much so yeah. He can get on the laptop sometimes but rarely and he only sends one message on how things are going every once in a while. I sent him a letter hopefully I get one back. It's been really really hard.

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 16th, 2021

I can imagine how difficult that is for both of you. Sending peace. @ResourcefulMaple8135

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User Profile: LeoniLangenhoven
LeoniLangenhoven March 13th, 2021

1, way way worse. I cannot please a single person cause I am always trying to please everyone 2. Maybe just surviving for the sake of my grand daughter 3. Cold Justice. The truth always comes out

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 15th, 2021

I am sorry that things are so tough right now. What kinds of things can you do to please yourself? Sometimes when we only think about others we run out of gas. @LeoniLangenhoven

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LeoniLangenhoven March 15th, 2021

THere is nothing left. I just don't want to continue anymore. What is the point. I am worth more dead than alive in anycase. I almost succeeded once but my family got paramedics out in time. Spend some time in ICU and then a month in mental hospital. I am still on medication and are really trying to be the happy person they want to see. I guess I got good at acting and pretending. In all honesty, I just don't think life is worth living. If they will just let me die they will have all the money they need instead they keep me alive doing a job I detest for a paycheck that doesn't cover every ones needs and then all want to fight about what I did earn. At least I made sure they have a room over their heads, food to eat, clothes to wear anda darn good medical aid.

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LeoniLangenhoven March 15th, 2021

I think some serious anxiety kicked in, had it before but overcome it in the mental clinic. I took an overdose of that meds. If they had just left me a bit longer, all of this would be over. The hurt, the constant feeling of not doing enough, thinking i am doing good for this person but then that person freaks out cause he doesn't agree. How do I even try keep them happy when they are unreasonable? At least with my inheritance they will get all of them canngo do whatever and part ways. No need to fight on how i spend my salary or time

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 16th, 2021

Your family will be in great pain if you take your own life. That is the bottom line. You mean more to them than your inheritance. They may not always show it, but you do.

I understand how deep the pain is right now. I have been there. But you can fight your way back. Do it for you, not them. You are stronger than you know.@LeoniLangenhoven

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LeoniLangenhoven March 20th, 2021

I know I am way stronger. I've survived my mom's suicide, my sister's suicide and my dad's death. I can handle a lot. I even won my daughter back when her dad wanted to take her away from me. I have helped numerous people, getting back on their feet when they are on the street, getting back in touch with family when there was a split, even connecting to them self again when they wanted to give up on life. Saved a lot of doggies from being put down at a shelter and giving them a great life filled with love and yet, I am the one that is seen as only an ATM or bank. I give shelter, food, stimulation, entertainment AND love. Yet I am alone. In my own head. It is not a good place to be. And still tomorrow I will go to work. Do what I was employed for, then come home and be what everyone else want me to be until I can finally go to sleep

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 21st, 2021

Yes, you really have been strong and survived alot.

It sounds like you have given all that you can give. You reach a point where you are utterly exhausted and feel alone because how much of your self has gone out to other people. The time has come to reclaim time and place for you. It can start really small. What are some ways that you could find a few minutes here and there and recognize that as time for you and no one else?@LeoniLangenhoven

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User Profile: Rebekahwriter13
Rebekahwriter13 March 13th, 2021

1) How is everything? Good? Worse? Nothing special? Tell us about it.

my family has been in a bad living situation and we may have a chance to get out, but i am still waiting on a reply.

my boyfriend is still dealing with his alcoholic ex (he hasn't realize that i've had my own demons about it)

2) What are your top priorities that you want to achieve in the near future? Heal my gout, get a new family doctor, and work on my living situation. (I wish I could put my guy as prirority, but we both have own problems to work on.)

3) What movie or tv show Have you seen recently that you would recommend and why? Don't give spoilers laugh Disney Secret of Suphur Springs had a lot of twists and turns.

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 15th, 2021

You should always be your first priority. You are balancing a great deal and that is ok. What are you hoping to do with your living situation?

That being said, have you told your boyfriend about your own challenges? It might help him to figure out how to deal with his.@Rebekahwriter13

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Rebekahwriter13 March 16th, 2021

@bestVase7265 My family is a very cramped living situation, no privacy and we are here because of one person in my family. We have an option to move but not everyone wants to move, so it makes it tricky. He doesn't want to live because his job and this is the only "home" place he has ever known.

I know we need to move on. I have health issues, but my doctors keep blaming weight, but I seem to lose a few pounds and regrain them back plus more. it's a very frustrating problem.

I have told my boyfriend about my problems and he tries his best but he lives in another state taking care of his sick mom.

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bestVase7265 March 17th, 2021

That sounds like a bunch of frustrations to work through. But you are doing it. You are stronger than you know. @Rebekahwriter13

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User Profile: toughCamp5721
toughCamp5721 March 14th, 2021

Nothing special. I have some interviews for a job I really want coming up but knowing my luck I won't get anywhere with it. Priorities? I just finished my masters (yay me) and now I'd like to start concentrating on a new job and some certifications. I've been watching "The Expanse" i don't ever watch TV and this show has held my interest for 5+ episodes so far so I'm really digging it.

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 15th, 2021

I bet you will do better in your interview than you think. It sounds like you are working hard to get ahead. @toughCamp5721

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User Profile: cherryskiies
cherryskiies March 14th, 2021

1) How is everything? Good? Worse? Nothing special? Tell us about it.

things have been alright. my addiction has been pretty bad but my schoolwork has been going well.

2) What are your top priorities that you want to achieve in the near future?

having a safe plane trip in a couple weeks (i havent been on a plane in a while so im a bit nervous) and get my last bit of schoolwork done.

3) What movie or tv show Have you seen recently that you would recommend and why? Don't give spoilers laugh

gilmore girls, i rewatched it for the like sixth time hahah. it's just my childhood comfort show.

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 16th, 2021

Sorry that you have been struggling with your addiction.@TheMeadowSystem

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User Profile: RelaxedPanda
RelaxedPanda March 14th, 2021

Hello. :) This is my first post in check-in. <3

1. Actually I am not sure. I guess my mood is much better than usually, I feel good - but also very stressed. It relates to the second question--

2. I need to make some meta-changes in my attitude to goals, planning, completing tasks, priorities. I just have my head full of ideas, things to do... I dont have that much duties but I worry about them all the time, I feel stressed and overwhelmed. I need so much to organise my life and it is my goal now. Create routines, prioritise and make it clear what I really have to do.

3. Recently I have seen Eddie the Eagle and loved it! It is so motivating.

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 16th, 2021

It is nice for you to join us. Sorry for all the stress. I can understand how overwhelming it is. @RelaxedPanda

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User Profile: Server8462
Server8462 March 15th, 2021

Miserable. Sore. Tried to be gone week ago. Still want.

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User Profile: bestVase7265
bestVase7265 March 16th, 2021

Sending peace. I am glad that you are still here.

Sorry that I can't write more. I am having a rough night myself. @Server8462

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User Profile: DerpHerp1246
DerpHerp1246 March 15th, 2021

Everything is okay some days it feels like it's getting worse. I want to be able to look at myself and finally see my reflection back because anymore I don't see who I really am in the mirror. I would recommend NCIS because it's a really interesting show if you like watching mystery and crime solving.

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bestVase7265 March 16th, 2021

It sounds like you are in a process of transitioning into something new. That can be painful but good.@DerpHerp1246

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