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What do you hate about yourself?

User Profile: cosmicjellyfishqueen
cosmicjellyfishqueen September 8th, 2016

Depression is bizarre in how in alters the way we think. We may know logically that it is our depression making us think this way but knowing that doesn't invalidate it. So write down what exactly you hate about yourself, let it all out. Once you do look back at what you wrote. Hopefully documenting your thought process will make it easier to work through your issues. Plus we will all be here to help.

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User Profile: mellis
mellis April 21st, 2019

Hate that have a lack of self confidence, also hate that I have health problems.

User Profile: BloomingSeaRose
BloomingSeaRose April 22nd, 2019

I hate that my mind is a mess

User Profile: Totheskyandbeyond
Totheskyandbeyond April 24th, 2019

Right now just all of me

User Profile: JLW034
JLW034 April 24th, 2019

Everything

I hate everything, I hate how I act, I hate how I look, I hate how I am so negative, I hate how alone I am. I just absolutely hate everything period.

User Profile: hockey8628
hockey8628 April 24th, 2019

just about everything about myself.

I hate my looks, since I do not look like anything great. I do not have my preferred eye colour or hair colour, I do not look GOOD, or hot or anything that would attract people to me.

I hate that I have nothing special about myself. I am ordinary and have nothing to set me apart from others. I am not extremely talented in one thing, I do not achieve top of my class grades, I am not an all star on any sports teams or a music prodegy.

I hate how I am no ones best friend. I am not important enough to anyone and no one needs me in the same way that I need people. I am always second choice and no one thinks of me above anyone else. No one cares to look for me and I do all of the heavy lifting in friendships that I have.

I hate my personality. I hate how I have a horrible personality. I get angry, I act on emotions. I am not the nicest person in the world and I do not have anything about my personality that could help me to get people to stay around and care about me.

I hate that I am me. I hate how I am stuck being myself instead of someone else, who is better at something and has something that manages to set them apart from other people. I hate being myself.

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User Profile: soothingice
soothingice April 24th, 2019

@hockey8628

People do need you. You're amazing and you're special. You're beautiful as well.

User Profile: timmywang93
timmywang93 April 24th, 2019

@hockey8628 I'm really sorry that you feel this way. I also often feel like I'm the second choice, like I'm nt really needed. But to be fair, I haven't opened up to them that much for them to understand who I am that deep. So perhaps if we could open up and trust them a little bit more...

User Profile: Yellowvibesss068
Yellowvibesss068 May 1st, 2019

@hockey8628

Here's the thing I feel completely the same I'm fat ugly annoying acne face brat But it's time to accept that and suck it up it's so freaking hard but in the end, somebody goes to bed thinking about you. Somebody will miss you. Somebody cares about more than you ever have about yourself. And I know that's hard to believe but it's true.

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User Profile: silentbliss
silentbliss April 24th, 2019

i hate that i can fall inlove too easily....crying

User Profile: Zulegirl
Zulegirl April 24th, 2019

hate is such a terrible word. So I am just gonna say I dont like.. So I dont like the fact that my body can gain alot of fat very easily. Some fat is okay and healthy and I wish I could be more curvy than just thick and some curvy. But I do have a fit beautiful upper body so thats great.

User Profile: FantasticRainbow65
FantasticRainbow65 April 24th, 2019

I hate the fact that I such a low self esteem.

User Profile: dancingdinosaur
dancingdinosaur April 28th, 2019

Totally have no control over my discipline at all

User Profile: Helppls99
Helppls99 April 28th, 2019

My skin, my body

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User Profile: Zulegirl
Zulegirl May 21st, 2019

@Helppls99

I understand the feeling!! I have the same issue. But you need to kind to yourself. Trust me it helps.

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