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What do you hate about yourself?

User Profile: cosmicjellyfishqueen
cosmicjellyfishqueen September 8th, 2016

Depression is bizarre in how in alters the way we think. We may know logically that it is our depression making us think this way but knowing that doesn't invalidate it. So write down what exactly you hate about yourself, let it all out. Once you do look back at what you wrote. Hopefully documenting your thought process will make it easier to work through your issues. Plus we will all be here to help.

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User Profile: TheRealJakeD
TheRealJakeD February 13th, 2020

I hate every single thing about myself. I hate that Im unwanted and completely alone. And I hate that I am alone because Im fat, ugly, boring, awkward, autistic, weird, and have no personality. Even the things I like are things nobody else in this world likes. I guess the thing I hate the most is that Im so different from everybody else to the point nothing about me correlates with anybody else

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User Profile: dworth257
dworth257 February 13th, 2020

@TheRealJakeD you have a really warm smile from your profile picture. I have a feeling that you are much more imporant than you think.

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User Profile: dworth257
dworth257 February 13th, 2020

my walls. my need to never be vulnerable.

User Profile: tinycactus809
tinycactus809 February 13th, 2020

How contradicting everything is in my life. My thoughts and actions conflict one another frequently. I just want to have one solid fact about myself that doesn't make it feel like I'm lying to myself. I hate that I wasn't good enough for someone even though they led me to believe I was more than enough. I hate that they've turned around after stabbing me in the back and leaning on me for comfort and I let them. I hate that I let some people from my past continue to treat me poorly in the present. I hate that I can't control my own life because my parents micro-manage EVERYTHING. I hate that I don't really know who I am anymore. Like, I do. But I also don't. idk if that makes sense.

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February 14th, 2020

@tinycactus809 Makes a lot of sense, can relate to most of it.

User Profile: Oddpanda16
Oddpanda16 February 14th, 2020

@tinycactus809 i completely get this

User Profile: mmmmm6
mmmmm6 February 15th, 2020

Don't feel that way .Just be happy... For everything you have .

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User Profile: tinycactus809
tinycactus809 February 17th, 2020

@mmmmm6

I wish I could but it's not always that easy 😔

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User Profile: nobodyspecial77
nobodyspecial77 February 15th, 2020

@tinycactus809 trust me, it makes too much sense

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User Profile: tluper6491
tluper6491 February 14th, 2020

I'm alone and unlovable.

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User Profile: tinycactus809
tinycactus809 February 17th, 2020

@tluper6491

That is not true! You're never alone on 7cups! and even IF 99% of the population thought you were unlovable, that means that there is STILL roughly 760,000 people on this planet who love you or are capable of loving you. Just because you feel like there's no one in your life right NOW that loves you, it doesn't mean that you won't find one of the 760,000 people on this planet that do. (I hope this was helpful, wishing you all the best my friend 😊)

User Profile: Cosmichorizon
Cosmichorizon February 23rd, 2020

@tluper6491 i'm ready to love you and hug you everyday if you are willing to to the same with me 😐

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User Profile: WarmingSun
WarmingSun February 14th, 2020

I do not hate anything aboit myself for the moment, however when something happens that i do not like, i feel i should be stronger than that particular situation, and i do not like to be weak as a person

User Profile: Oddpanda16
Oddpanda16 February 14th, 2020

My emotions and depression

User Profile: Miriam6
Miriam6 February 14th, 2020

I don't hate myself I hate everyone else

User Profile: Gujon3073
Gujon3073 February 14th, 2020

Where do i start

User Profile: cleanMinded99
cleanMinded99 February 14th, 2020

I get involved in things pretty easily without realizing if they're worth.

User Profile: boyinthecloset
boyinthecloset February 14th, 2020

My poverty

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User Profile: tiger329
tiger329 May 23rd, 2020

@boyinthecloset

<3

that doesnt define you

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