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Bad birthday vibes

User Profile: gentleJackfruit5106
gentleJackfruit5106 November 11th, 2024

My birthday is coming up and I bought two tickets to a show I’ve been wanting to see, one for me and one for my boyfriend of many years. I was hoping to spend some time with him for my birthday, or just someone really, because I don’t feel like I have anyone a lot of the time. He said he didn’t want to go, “wasn’t sure if he’d like it”. This is all I asked for, I spent 350+ dollars for his birthday, and I can’t even get him to join me on mine. I’m spiraling so bad right now.

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User Profile: YourCaringConfidant
YourCaringConfidant November 12th, 2024

@gentleJackfruit5106 Happy early birthday! 🎈 It seems this show is super important to you and I'm so sorry your partner doesn't want to go with you. Have you expressed how important this is to you and that it's more than just a show? Maybe he is unaware of how this is the one special thing you wanted to do for your birthday or doesn't see this as a great way to bond and get closer. I really hope he reconsider and is able to compromise with you on this. After all, your special day is coming up and you deserve all the happiness and love. ♡ I hope that even if he does not change his mind about accompanying you that you do not let it spoil your fun. Celebrate your special day how you would like and with people who love and care about you. Happy early birthday again. 🎂 🥳 🎉