Depression From Family
Hi am 19 year old and I been dealing with a situation about my dad. I recently spilt from him four months ago but am still dealing with the emotional stress he left on me. Am pretty sure my dad has mental issues and that's the reason why I left him because how crazy he acted towards me and treated me. He would get these switch ups and start to yell at me for no reason it got so bad to the point he was screaming at me at a gas station because I didn't know how to park the car right to get gas and the gas clerk had to come out to check to see if everything was okay and then I got so tired of his behavior towards me I decided to leave and I told him but he then called the cops on me and started making me seem like I was the issue and started telling his family on the phone that I went "crazy" and ever since that day I just left with my mom and I recently found out from a family member he told them how he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore and disowned me. I really don't know what to think of this. It's crazy really. When I was a kid I knew he was so filled with hate and would get these anger outburst but I thought he learned from those mistakes but now..after all that I don't know what to think.
@imaginativeHemlock7509
so sorry you going through this yes he most likey has untreated mental stuff going on. we can relate to this as many in our family have mental issues but will not get help we think you brave for seeing how your dad be and leaving with your mom hope that going well
one can not change another person sadly only they can seek help and do work to change we know it hard dealing with ones who get angry and take it out on you again leaving was the best thing to do he most likely disowned you due to you setting boundaries and well not allowing him his way yes we get your now dealing with all the feelings that normal just know your not alone
hope and pray things get better for you and family too