Feeling like a loser
I am a shy person and I don’t make friends easily and I was raised in a silent distant family members but whenever I am friends with someone I tend to offer all I can for this friendship but almost every friend I did this with didn’t enjoy spending time with me. I am now a lonely person who is almost afraid of taking any step because I know there will be no one to support me whenever things go wrong. I tried all the solutions of loving myself and so but I read about a network of support that I lack in my life and I don’t know where I go wrong with my relations. Is this normal to feel like I am not anyone’s first priorities?
@chainhistoric
Sometimes when we find it hard to make friends and we find one we can over do it...... you are not alone in that many people do that... i think some shy away as that is too much for them.
I was grateful when I had people who pointed it out to me and I could see it and control that urge to text/ call or be in contact all the time.... that works when younger but as we have more things to deal with maybe school/ work / family we have only so much time for friends. I always appreciate the knowing and loving yourself mind frame we do need feedback and support for others occasionally.
sometimes believe it or not others can provide answers we might not like to hear but Need to. I feel now days so many people are busy being busy they do not make time to really get to knwo others and support them. When i need someone to bounce ideas off i have a person but she does not answer same day sometimes but we learn patience.
Thank you for your answer and caring, I just find it tough sometimes to fight alone in life and I just need a hand or at least someone to listen and make me feel cared about but maybe you are right and I over do it.