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chainhistoric
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Friendship Support / by chainhistoric
Last post
 August 14th, 2024
...See more I went to a summer vacation with a best friend (at least that is what I considered) and some of his personal friends after he invited me to go with them. We are now there and most of the time he leaves me to spend time together without inviting me, so I try to get to know his friends but it is still formal as they all know each other previously and I don’t know any of them and so I don’t to force myself into their outings. It now ended up of me being alone in a place I don’t anything about with people I don’t know anything about and what makes this even worse is that I don’t make friends easily. I am very sad that my so called best friend leaves me alone most of the time without even inviting me with the others and I am not sure that I am a welcomed guest after all but the first one is really really hurtful.
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Feeling like a loser
Depression Support / by chainhistoric
Last post
 August 1st, 2024
...See more I am a shy person and I don’t make friends easily and I was raised in a silent distant family members but whenever I am friends with someone I tend to offer all I can for this friendship but almost every friend I did this with didn’t enjoy spending time with me. I am now a lonely person who is almost afraid of taking any step because I know there will be no one to support me whenever things go wrong. I tried all the solutions of loving myself and so but I read about a network of support that I lack in my life and I don’t know where I go wrong with my relations. Is this normal to feel like I am not anyone’s first priorities?
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Lonliness depression
Depression Support / by chainhistoric
Last post
 January 17th, 2024
...See more I feel like nobody has time for my trivial issues or to listen to my small problems, but actually feeling lonely is what really kills me. I want to cry to anyone with all my little small problems since grade 1 that nobody knows anything about. I am now depressed for these small things that I have kept inside me and now I suffer from loneliness, fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, lack of experience in my life. I have tried to invest my time in some activities but whenever a small problem faces, I find myself alone and don’t know what to do so I just stress out and blame myself for it. I have never been in a relation with any girl as I don’t feel like I am the right one for any girl. How do you guys make new friends or start new relations? And do you have in your life someone who you trust that would never leave you or is it normal to feel like I do?
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How do I make friends?
Friendship Support / by chainhistoric
Last post
 July 29th, 2023
...See more I don’t have any close friend and I have a difficulty making any. Can you help me with steps that I should take to make any friends? Or just tell the story of how you made friends with anyone after college
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No support
Family & Caregivers / by chainhistoric
Last post
 July 27th, 2023
...See more I was raised in a family that is psychologically far from each other so I get no support from them. Lately my friends started bullying on me which made me hear a lot of negative words about me (how i am bald, will never find a girl to love me, …) and that is even beside the hatred words I hear from other toxic people in work or in the daily life. I can withstand these trivial phrases but I just want someone to tell me anything positive about me because my self-esteem is at its lowest now. Anyone went through this problem? What should I do?
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Lack of Friends
Depression Support / by chainhistoric
Last post
 July 26th, 2023
...See more I just want to tell anyone how it hurts when persons who you called close friends or even best friends kept going away from me and befriended new friends with ease. How this makes me think that I am not enough and that I am not a good person to be around. I have never tasted the feeling of safety or relief when you have someone to tell your problems to, so I just talk to myself about my problems and cry to relief the pain.
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I need support
General Support / by chainhistoric
Last post
 July 25th, 2023
...See more Hello there, I am 27 years old male. Since my childhood I got rejected, abandoned and bullied by almost everyone; my only two brothers used to gang up against me, my classmates once rejected my request to go home with them, 2 boys were bullying on me, my father was away almost all the time and my mother was busy with her family stuff so I used to go home everyday with many problems and no one to help or support. When I grew up I remember this teacher who showed me care & support so I worked with him as an assistant with little money just to be with him and receive the support I never received but when I needed him to spend time with me explaining some lessons before my last year exam he told me that he doesn't have time now which made me think that he could have been using me when I considered him as a father. Then a friend who I considered to be my best friend left with other friends of his and he stopped calling or replying to me, and the girl I loved chose to marry another man. I am not even going into how many times I heard that I am ugly, not-enough, not fun to be around. I am now depressed, have fear of abandonment, fear of rejection and don't want to be a heavy burden on anyone. I don't want to tell anyone I know about my problems as I am afraid that they can think of me as a depressing person and would go away. I also suffer from overthinking of every action or word someone says or does to me so that if something wrong in our relation I would save the relation before it is too late but I am tired of that overthinking too. I just need them to know that I exist and I need support, love and guidance
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