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User Profile: friendlyShade2009
friendlyShade2009 August 26th, 2025

I was diagnosed with depression a while ago I stuck all of my time instead of sleeping I stuck all of it into studying I studied so much I got nominated for the medical future medical leaders at Harvard and instead of my family being happy my brother told me but I couldn't do it my sister told me that I was a scam to have to pay to even go over to Boston my mother won't post about me and when I did post my nominations certificate online everybody except my family liked it and told me congratulations just feel unhappy about it

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User Profile: RainbowRosie
RainbowRosie August 26th, 2025

@friendlyShade

Hi there, sorry to hear this. Have your parents always been unsupportive towards you, or just on this occasion? 

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User Profile: friendlyShade2009
friendlyShade2009 OP August 26th, 2025

They always were my dad is out of the picture for other reasons but my mom never was really proud of me she never posted me it was always my older sister and brother and my little sister

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User Profile: blueLemon3704
blueLemon3704 August 27th, 2025

First of all great work and congratulations on the nominations and Harvard no less. That's amazing.

It does not matter what your family think. We can't control how other people behave and to be honest you don't need them.

You are doing great. Onwards and leave them behind don't let them drag you down. You have a bright future ahead. Most of the med students there would give their left nut for you achievement.

reflect on you achievement and the hard work and hope fully you should recognize what a good and happy thing it is.

Proud of you

User Profile: RedWell
RedWell August 27th, 2025

That is spectacular, congratulations! Some people resent Other people when they succeed at big things. It’s so hard because it’s not a reflection of you, It’s a reflection of them. A very famous and popular Musician said “ If they leave me Bad feedback, It’s about them. If they leave me good feedback, It’s also about them.” You not only have a great future In medical and other achievements, But you will be a great friend And a great partner Because you will know how to celebrate others. They love you, They may be resenting that you will outgrow them in some ways and choose to spend more of your time with mutually supportive people. The people who liked your certificate Are your choosing-you family, And you will meet some awesome people when you go to Boston!

User Profile: RedWell
RedWell August 27th, 2025

That is spectacular, congratulations! Some people resent Other people when they succeed at big things. It’s so hard because it’s not a reflection of you, It’s a reflection of them. A very famous and popular Musician said “ If they leave me Bad feedback, It’s about them. If they leave me good feedback, It’s also about them.” You not only have a great future In medical and other achievements, But you will be a great friend And a great partner Because you will know how to celebrate others. They love you, They may be resenting that you will outgrow them in some ways and choose to spend more of your time with mutually supportive people. The people who liked your certificate Are your choosing-you family, And you will meet some awesome people when you go to Boston!