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I don’t like my own birthdays

User Profile: Smithly918
Smithly918 September 3rd, 2024

Ever since I turned 16 I kinda dread my own birthday. I’m turning 20 in a month and I’ve never been more upset/uninterested in my birthday. I feel so lost in life and like I make so many dumb mistakes that I shouldn’t make. Kinda just needed to vent about life recently.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 September 3rd, 2024

@Smithly918

birthdays tend to be a reminder of time passing and stresses us out if we feel lost or no direction. 

You are not alone in disliking or wanting to forget about your birthday. 

User Profile: LillyRonsha22
LillyRonsha22 September 3rd, 2024

@Smithly918

Time passing can make a lot of things uninteresting or you may not feeling like giving it much importance and that happens to most of us so what you're feeling right now is completely valid. Since birthdays remind us of lost time it makes sense as to why you're feeling that way. However, we should also remember that new years mean that we can also start anew or work on things we haven't before so just remember that you got this and we're here for you if you want to vent more!