Lonely
I had a close friendship that recently ended, and it hurt me deeply. I’m not good at making friends and I have only one friend, but they aren’t very open to talking about feelings. In class, I feel painfully lonely most of the time, like I don’t really belong anywhere. I often bottle everything inside and feel utterly empty, crushed, and overwhelmed, and it’s impossible to explain just how miserable everything feels.
@friendlyDrum3171
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I'm sorry you feel so lonely.
That's heartbreaking.
Please know, here you are not alone and you don't have to bottle things up.
It can be so hard when we struggle with making friends.
We often feel we are the problem, but this isn't the case.
Sending you my best wishes 💜💕
Thanks… 💕 it’s just been really hard feeling so isolated. Your message makes me feel a little less invisible, even if only for a moment.
@Dazaiiii
A pleasure 💜
I completely understand where you’re coming from. I’ve been through something very similar to you. The loneliness has been something that has been accompanying me for many years. I desperately want to make new friends, but more often than not the fear of them eventually leaving when they get bored of me has kept me from making new friends. I’m wanting to get better, but the feeling of emptiness and the feeling of not belonging anywhere and not fitting in is something I’ve felt for years. I just want you to know that you’re not alone even though for people in similar situations it definitely doesn’t feel that way. I know I’m a complete stranger on the internet, but I am always willing to lend a listening ear and help with anything that you may be going through emotionally or mentally.
Thank you for your message, it honestly means a lot. I’ve been struggling for a while — I overthink everything and constantly need reassurance just to feel okay. I’ve lost my patience and I’m just tired of everything lately. Most of the time, I feel empty and hollow inside, like my heart is crying. And I can’t stop fearing that even my only two friends might leave me because I’ve become so boring. It’s a really lonely feeling, but reading your message made me feel a bit understood.
You’re welcome! I also am a overthinker so I can relate to you in that regard. I don’t blame you for feeling tired. It’s easier said than done not to feel that way, but more often than not it’s the act of pretending that you’re okay not to worry your loved ones and just going through the routines on autopilot that drain us more than anything. But again I understand you. I understand the pain of loneliness, and I understand the pains of everyday life beating you down. I know you might not believe me, but I’m proud of you for getting out of bed and choosing to fight and choosing to face another day despite everything that you’re going through. You’re so incredibly strong, courageous, brave, and resilient and you deserve so so much. Just don’t give up 🫶🏼
Awh thank you so much, that actually means a lot 🥺 I get what you mean about pretending to be okay — it’s exhausting, honestly. I wake up feeling tired even before the day starts, like I’m just running on autopilot too. It’s nice to know someone really understands that feeling. I’m trying to keep going, but it’s just so hard sometimes.
Yes I agree with you on it being hard because it truly is. Just feeling like a hollow shell and not knowing if anything is going to change or go anywhere. But you’re welcome 🫶🏼 there’s so much that life has to offer you and there’s so many amazing and great things that I know you can accomplish you just have to keep fighting and proving to everything against you that you are strong and you won’t give up and you’ll keep going no matter how hard things get. Everything and everyone against you seeing you succeed in life whenever there was no one in your corner is the best way to laugh in their face and say “I told you I can.”
Thank you so muchhhh❤️
You’re welcome ☺️☺️
@Dazaiiii I'm really sorry you're feeling this way 🙁 I can relate to you 🤍 Please know that this is a safe space for you ❤️ You're not alone here, and you truly matter 💝 Sending you lots of love and *hugs* 🐾💕
Aww you dont know how much this means to me. Its just been 1 day since I have been using this app and I already feel light because of beautiful people like you all☺️
@Dazaiiii
Aww, that’s so sweet! I’m happy you’re feeling better already — you deserve support and kindness ❤️
These small things mean a lot💕
That’s the way have to help, encourage and support each other. We all going thru and we all need halo and support to get of this black hole. Come we make a Support Chain… So please hold my hand and then others hand to feel more stronger and help others.
Means helping others to help your self.
I have extended my hand thru support chain, join me to get relief.
Best of Luck
That’s actually really sweet of you to say. I like the idea of a support chain — we all need that kind of connection sometimes. I’ll hold your hand in this chain :) maybe together we can make things a little easier for each other.
That’s the way have to help, encourage and support each other. We all going thru and we all need halo and support to get of this black hole. Come we make a Support Chain… So please hold my hand and then others hand to feel more stronger and help others.
Means helping others to help your self.
I have extended my hand thru support chain, join me to get relief.
Best of Luck
@considerateChestnut4179
