Mentaly sick 77 handicap needs Advise
Due to personal health n limitations, the Catract eye surgery of wife postponded by me twice, it’s my fault. Now after last year, today Opthamologist got angry to my wife and said why you delayed it, now eyes pressure is very high so three months medicines prescribed then decesion will be made. She now upset angry and yelling at me. I’m currently going thru sevre fear, anxiety and depression with other social and emotional issues.
I am messing lots of things around by wrong judgements and actions. Lost all famiky and friends support. Paychsitrist also angry n not responding although I got mefidicinebprescription from gispitalbER was admitted last week. Now trying cope and cool down but regretting too much for my wrong decesions. How to overcome is not known but I agree I messed up everything now. I have to find someway out to come out of my Afsar, Anxiety, stress, depression and other issues.
Taking medications and therapies but don’t know, nothing helping.
@considerateChestnut4179
I will share from my dad’s experience, that he got cataract surgery and had long term effects including loss of sensation to one leg (weird, huh?) and other side effects that were very unpleasant for him, to the point he didn’t get the surgery in the other eye.
So, maybe, putting off surgery was actually better?
Maybe getting surgery now is still possible, if your wife and you still want it?
There is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
It’s not always clear, the path to choose, but both of you together will find a way.
Our spiritual person once said to us: “It’s all been decided anyway. Just relax. Just love each other.” This eased my mind.
In some way, aggressively seeking remedies is sometimes the worst path.
However, doing something can be enlivening and can restore hope as well.
I’ve always tried to keep to the core statement, “First, do no harm."
Love and Courage,
Calm Rosebud
Thanks for sharing, I am sure nothing will be wrong n during next visit, surgery date will be decided.
