New Year: Myth or Reality?
The Earth takes 365 days (rotations on itself) to complete an orbit around the Sun. We call it a year. The point that we use to measure the end and start of this cycle is arbitrary.
Different cultures across the ages have used different dates to signal the start of a new year.
So there is nothing based on physical reality that makes a “New Year” date special. But there is a socio-cultural reality.
In particular, there is an important and very ancient idea, shared by most cultures, and deeply ingrained in the current ones, of “annual circular time”.
That is, that the end of each year (however we define it) marks the end of something, and the start of a new year is a “new beginning”. And so the circle repeats, year after year.
Some cultures studied by anthropologists, archaeologists and historians, go as far as thinking in terms of just one year repeating over and over, at which end all is destroyed, and afterward, it all starts anew.
Chaotic festivities have been celebrated for ages across cultures to mark the “destruction” of the old year. Little remains of those nowadays in the way of high alcohol consumpion, overeating, frenzy partying, and fireworks, for example. Modest “chaos”...
This “destruction of the old” and a “new beginning” open the possibility for a new way of doing things. “This year will be different”. This in turn begs the question “What must be changed? What should be different?”
In many cultures nowadays, the answer to these questions take the form of “New Year Resolutions”. Commitments we make to ourselves to do some important things differently during the new annual cycle. Or do a new thing.
While some people embrace wholeheartedly this practice, riding the wave of the general “new beginning feeling” to get motivation for improving their lives in some desired aspects, others are taken aback by the social pressure to make goals and commitments for the upcoming year.
Both attitudes are right, each with good foundations, I think.
On one hand, any reason that motivates us to commit to healthy practices and goals, and gives us a clear timeframe for achieving those, can be very useful and much welcome in our lives.
On the other hand, we might not take the change of the year as such an important event. Our main timeframe might be days, weeks or months, instead of a year.
We might decide to change something at any time, like a captain that corrects the direction when the ship is drifting apart from its route.
What’s your favorite approach?
- “New Year, new beginning” and “New Year Resolutions”?
- Or skipping the New Year Resolutions and going for incremental changes when you feel the need?
@HealingTalk
Hi, Talk,
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New Year, new beginning” and “New Year Resolutions”? It is 'forward' to me. A clean day. The slate has been wiped clean on each and every new day.
- Or skipping the New Year Resolutions and going for incremental changes when you feel the need? the resolutions game is ridiculous
@purpleTree4652
Hi Tree!
Thank you so much for coming here to comment on this topic.
A daily timeframe is great. Starting always with a clean day ahead is refreshing and motivating.
You can make specific plans for things like your studies, work, etc. But those don't need to conform to a year. They can be longer or shorter.
As a regular practice, focusing on the current day is refreshing and down-to-earth.
Thank you again for your contribution!
All the best!
Marcelo.
@HealingTalk I'm very much in the 2nd. I'm still celebrating Christmas so I'm enjoying the extra treats.
@AffyAvo
Thank you Affy for coming here to share your thoughts!
I did a check-in with a similar subject, and planning even a month ahead doesn't seem to be very popular around here...
Most prefer to focus day by day, and follow a chosen path without any deadline.
An approach like yours might be more gentle, realistic, and effective.
And let's continue celebrating!
Taking full advantage of the "feel good" Christmas spirit seems wise to me.
@HealingTalk
Both, although I have a preference for the first
@HealingTalk
It's technically 365 1/4 days which is why every 4 years we have a leap year with an added day.
I believe in the new year brings new beginnings thing, but I don't make resolutions because I know that it will create unnecessary anxiety and pressure on myself to achieve whatever my resolution is. It would be counterproductive for me personally, but I do believe that a new year (any new year-lunar like the Chinese and Jewish new year or the one celebrated on January 1 globally) is definitely an opportunity for new beginnings or a time to end things that may be hindering something new.
@K87
Hi!
Thank you so much for posting here your clever thoughts and genuine experiences!
You are right about Earth's orbital period. Mine is a crude simplification...
I agree that we should take advantage of any possible cultural practice or tradition that is useful to us. Some people feel bad about the end-of-year season, while others see in it an opportunity to renew their hope for things to get better, and to close the door to unhealthy things in the past.
According to research, most people forget about their resolutions early in the year, and might feel frustrated that they didn't even remember, not to mention accomplish them.
But, the same here, for some it might be a source of anxiety (one more thing to worry about!) while for others might be a motivation to do healthy things.
My take is that we are not obliged to follow any tradition, and the best we understand this as a cultural phenomenon, the better. These are tools at our disposal. we might use them or not according to how useful (or harmful) they are for us.
Thank you again for sharing your thoughts! You are a clever, thoughtful and insightful person. It must be a pleasure to chat with you. Lucky those that have you around them!
All the best!
Marcelo.
@HealingTalk
U are soo sweet, I think I 💕u lol.