Struggling

@amiableBunny4016

i don’t really have any helpful words for you. I just want you to know that I am feeling for you and read so much pain in your words. I know you are a great inspiration to others, but you deserve space and kindness too. You are valuable and important, and that can never change. Holding onto hope for you…

@amiableBunny4016 Hey you 💙 It doesn't make you a terrible person Bunny. It makes you human. You're hurting from so many things - in so many different ways and my heart aches for you. Your words are so - I've been there. I know that helpless feeling and I am so sorry you're feeling that way. What would you think of a self care break from the forums? It might ease some of the responsibilities here - yet you would still have our support. There's never any pressure to reply to anyone. Just know there's a lot of people here that love and care about you. I know it might not seem like much in the grand scheme of things because we're all just online. But you're in our hearts and our thoughts always

Nooo I’m sure you’re a wonderful person! Everyone out there is just trying to navigate this difficult world, and school kinda sucks sometimes. I’m sorry about your home life, that’s not fun after a long depressing day of school, I totally understand that. Don’t feel like you have to commit a lot to forums, I come and go a few days at a time most of the time, no one will be mad at you or blame you. If you need time for yourself, give yourself some time. Your posts on 7 cups makes my day, but you don’t have to feel pressured about replying, posting, etc. If you need anything, come vent to me. I might not be helpful, but I can listen to you. It helps when other people (even random strangers on 7 cups) knows about life issues. Bullying also sucks. Most people experience it, and at different levels, but it doesn’t matter because it all is so horrible. When I get bullied, I eat my favorite meal and drink chocolate milk. Being a teenager is difficult! I’m 16, so I’m still goin down that road, and it still sucks even at two years before adulthood. So please take care of yourself. Try and sleep, make sure you’re eating and drinking water, and try and do something good for yourself. If there is anything I can help with at all, reach out to me. Have a good morning/evening!💗😊

You are allowed to feel done. It doesn't make you a bad person. It makes you a normal person who is going through a lot right now.

Sometimes having a spot like this to vent every night can help a bit.

What kinds of medical support are you getting? @amiableBunny4016

@amiableBunny4016

sorry bunwee but need to disagree:( your not a terrible person and it's ok to be struggling and hurting your a human and it's not possible to be doing alright always 💕

it sounds like you have lots on your plate which makes even more sense on why you're feeling done with everything

bunwee would it help to block everything else and think about yourself? what you need at this time the most? and how you can give it to yourself? the world can wait but you need rest and self care and reminding yourself that you matter too 💕

idk why parents feel they know it right for us always ... it sucks to know your mum is being more abusive after your dad's passing.. . could it be her way of grieving your father? it's not right at all in any way we see it but some people seem to just become their worst self when they aren't doing well ... would it help to talk to mum? tell her how she makes you feel and how wrong it is for her to treat you so horribly? i know it may not be easy to talk or tell her all this but it seems she never learned to be a parent.. let alone a good parent ..

bunnwee you and mum both hurting but you use hurt to remember how it feels and to heal others with your kindness... meanwhile mum goes onto hurt you more:( it's not fair to you but know that you are a good person with the heart filled with the most love 💕

idk why do people at school have to join in making life more difficult for you... maybe they cannot accept how special you are... some people do that ... they inflict their insecurities on us ... its important to remind ourselves that it's not us they are fighting with ... it's their inner battles making them turn into an unkind person .... i would hope they can some day understand what a gem they are losing out to know and become friends with ... their loss totally... bunwee you're not at fault and you don't deserve to put yourself down for how others treat you ... you are a wonderful bunny whom we love and care for so much 💕 im not even kidding when I think of you I instantly smile ... that's how much impact you've had over me ....and I'm sure on everyone else too because you're so beautifully you always 💕

can't help in your helplessness sadly but can sit with you so you know your not alone 🤗 sends hugs