They are like that... you can't help, you'll be hurt
If they don't love you leave...
“Stop chasing people who make you feel like a guest in a place you built for them.”
“If someone’s effort disappears the moment you stop asking for it, it was never effort it was performance.”
You know… I used to think love was just about wanting each other.
If they wanted to be with you, that was enough.
But I’ve learned it’s not.
Someone can want you… and still not know how to love you.
They can stay… but still not show up.
They can hold your hand… and still let you feel alone.
Love is more than presence it’s communication.
It’s effort.
It’s making you feel like a priority, not an afterthought.
And if they don’t have the capacity to love you the way you deserve…
No amount of desire will change that.
So now, I choose differently.
I choose people who speak their truth, even when it’s hard.
People who show up for me the way I show up for them.
People who understand that the little things…
aren’t little at all.
Because the right person won’t just want you…
They’ll know how to love you.
And they’ll never… water it down.
“After all the disrespect, I was kind until I learned using my heart without using my brain was the real disservice to myself.”
What I learnt is “A single breath can be the line between reckless reaction and deliberate choice.”
“To breathe before you act is to choose mastery over mayhem.”
~ aaryan
@Aaryan06
This is very moving and profound, touching the heart deeply Aaryan . You have summarized so many painful truths that many people experience in their relationships. Thank you for sharing these valuable and important insights. Your words remind us that true love is not just a desire or a physical presence, but rather it is about actions, communication, and mutual respect. Self worth is the most important step towards finding this love. You have learned a very valuable lesson, so I ..which is that thinking before making any decision is a wisdom that many do not master.Your words encourage all of us to be strong and to value ourselves, and to choose those who truly deserve us. To not settle for anything that diminishes our worth. Thank you once again for this inspiring message ✨✨✨🌷🌷🌷🌷
Thank you so much tulipsmile i really appreciate it 🖤I tried my best...guys whoever is feeling lonely feeling heartbroken please “A single breath can be the line between reckless reaction and deliberate choice.”
“To breathe before you act is to choose mastery over mayhem.”
@Aaryan06
That was beautifully said, such a lovely and profound way to voice what you have learned from pain, and you speak the truth for others as well, it’s a gentle but blunt reminder about what it means to realistically be in any relationship, well said!💐
Thank you so much for your kind words it's calm.
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@Aaryan06
This really makes me realize how much this applies to me and how I treat my boyfriend (and my family). My love for anyone is never enough, yet I cling to desperate attempts to prove I can love. Only to fail repeatedly. They all deserve someone better. Someone capable of giving them the love they need, not love rationed out I’m feeling a certain way. I barely have enough love for myself, so what I give feels like scraps, and scraps just make things worse. Even if I want to bury them in love, or even feel love myself, I feel too hollow to try.Thank you for posting this.
They say silence speaks louder than words. But sometimes… it doesn’t speak at all.
It hides decisions that have already been made, truths you weren’t ready to hear.
Thanks for your heartfelt comment I can feel that pain
~ aaryan
