Post on here tomorrow something good about your day tomorrow. Tag me if you want to be sure I see it. You got this
@Lolo368 Hi, I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way<3 Life’s got a way of throwing us into these low points and when we're in it, it can feel like the highs are so far away. But things do change, even when it seems impossible. Sometimes we just have to hold on a little longer. Stay<3 Keep being your beautiful self<3 Someday you'll look back and be grateful that you did.
@Lolo368 it looks to me other people like and want you hear.
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Hey—
Lolo!
Not so fast, okay?
Don’t you know stars like you
aren’t allowed to crash
without dazzling the sky first?
You say you already know when and how,
but Lolo....
life doesn’t always follow the script we expect.
Even I don’t know what will be the "vibe" of tomorrow—
and sometimes,
the beauty is in how things surprise us.
You cry thinking about it?
That’s okay.
Crying is good.
Crying’s just your soul doing laundry
Hang in there
until it smells like hope again.
Life’s a weird, long movie
and you haven’t even met the plot twist yet
So no goodbyes.
Just “brb.”
Okay?
We love you,
messy wings and all.
And we all are here
Rooting for you!
@azurePond wow 🥰
Hey ! So I posted this on teens and self esteem but no one is really answering so ;
i have a friend who vaped (bought 3 and cried after someone stole one btw we are 13) hangs out with bad people and more. And it's starting to take a toll on my mental health (wont say what happened but yeah and having thoughts of hurting myself cause of her clean for 3 weeks ) and me and my other friends don't want to be friends with her anymore so we thought of wanting until the end of the year Since she's changing schools And then blocking her on everything, leaving a message kind of explain explaining Why, but also by being delicate cause she has mental health problems. So yeah I'm wondering if this is a good way cause shes making me feel like crap and I know but she's quite fragile and we've been friends for a while (2 years ) but since November I've been yo-yoing through depression and anxiety and she's not helping (even made me try to yk and cause of her I am not clean from sh anymore) but she's tried to yk multiple times even staying in the hospital last year for a week so l don't know what to do and plus we are bffs but I don't know if I will last next year if I don't cut her off at the end of the year but I kinda don't want to hurt her
I would say talking to her is better than blocking her and then explaining why.
So glad that you're still here. Really proud of you and my friend who tagged everyone here. ❤️
As for your situation, I wouldn't even know what advice to give, if I even felt like advice was a good idea. I think it comes back to you though. If someone is causing a lot of issues in your life, distancing can be necessary, and you can't usually put those people before you and expect it to go well. On the other hand, I totally get what you mean about not wanting to hurt her, and I think that's important too. You seem like someone who cares about the messages you send out, and thats a really good thing. Whatever you end up doing, it sounds like your friends are with you on this, and there are people here ready to listen as well... So don't forget that you're important.
Also, as for the sh, I used to do that a lot.... I still struggle. If you can stop yourself, or if you're dealing with it after it happens, just remember that no one wants you to be suffering that. I wish you didn't get pushed to doing that at a young age, but it was pretty much the same for me. It's possible to get past it more and more... There might not be an exact secret to it, but I hope that what I said resonated and helps a little. 😊
@Lolo368 Its clear shes having a bad effect on you. I think theres nothing wrong with you taking a few steps back and distancing yourself from someone who is noticeably hurting you so, intentional or not. Theres nothing wrong with that. I would say to be delicate and kind, yes, and maybe maybe lessen some of the harsher truths, like how much exactly shes affecting you. But stepping back, going no contact- youre allowed to do that. I hope it goes okay
@Lolo368 I'm sending you multiple hugs 💜 and I hope that your day picks up, you feel better and you realise, you are not alone 🥰
God has looked down from heaven upon the children of men
To see if there is anyone who understands,
Who seeks after God [who requires Him, who longs for Him as essential to life].
It’s okay to be okay.
and I just got blackmailed by someone on here ( listener acc) I feel like ***😭😭😭😭😭
@Lolo368 Oh no! Can you report it and block them?
Yes, please report it! That’s not right. The mods will take care of it <3
