how do you heal
I've been diagnosed with Bi polar, adhd severe depression and imminent explosive disorder I have a therapist (the only place that'll take my insurance) I've been seeing him since October, well in October I found out my wife had cheated on me, we discussed what caused it and if we were gonna separate, we're not we're falling back in love but every session I have with my therapist he brings it up it makes me mad and makes me double think if I should stay. I tell him we're working on us and he still asks if she's still being faithful, you can't be with her 24/7 and he urge me to quit the relationship because I'm setting myself up for "heart break" I don't believe that, we're working together it's like when we first started dating but he still won't let it go. How's a person supposed to heal with that being brought up ever session? I can't understand what he's doing it doesn't help with depression it makes me over think everything and I don't know how to deal with it. I need help
@Dooptydoo
I think you are right.
People can and do overcome situations of infidelity and work it out. I found Many people have either made a personal boundary or feeling if they were in your shoes they would NEVER forgive or work on things... Many of those like to stir the situation hoping to create doubt and anger. It sounds like a therapist's personal problem not yours.
If it does not end speak up and direct the conversation you are the customer and they work for you.
