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User Profile: Kayles96
Kayles96 June 24th

evening all I am struggling tonight and need someone to talk to but I am a little bit funny with who I speak to due to past stuff. What’s the best way around this as If I message on the listeners I may not be able to chat to them due to my past experiences

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User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 June 24th

@Kayles96 I wish I had an answer 😞 but I hope the struggles ease soon 💙 spirit hugs 💙

User Profile: RedOceanSun
RedOceanSun June 24th

I don't understand what does passed stuff has to do with all of that? :)

User Profile: RedOceanSun
RedOceanSun June 24th

@RedOceanSun

* past 

User Profile: raphael86
raphael86 June 24th
@RedOceanSun I think the problem is that it may come up in the conversation, so she needs ways to get around her discomfort speaking about it, if I read correctly? Sorry kayles if I didn't 😅
User Profile: RedOceanSun
RedOceanSun June 24th

@raphael86

Ah, i see, you are right probably. Thank you

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User Profile: Kayles96
Kayles96 OP June 24th

yes and no, so it’s speaking about stuff but also it’s a trust thing with the male side but when it’s more talking about stuff of some natures that triggers me if you get me

User Profile: RedOceanSun
RedOceanSun June 24th

@Kayles96

It is a pretty complicated way of expressing the thoughts :). So do you need male listeher?

User Profile: RedOceanSun
RedOceanSun June 24th

@Kayles96

So if you need a listener you may find him. 

If you want to have answers to your complicated questions, i may try to answer in a delicate manner

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User Profile: Kayles96
Kayles96 OP June 24th

No so I struggle with trust and males. I prefer females as I feel more comfortable with them

User Profile: RedOceanSun
RedOceanSun June 24th

@Kayles96

Ah-ah, now i get everything!  So, sure, you need to find the fittest female listener then.  But if you have less delicate stuff, to question, please ask, i will do my best to answer :)

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User Profile: tearstruck
tearstruck June 24th

@Kayles96

If you go to browse all listeners, you might be able to find someone who you can relate to and feel safe talking to! Another possibility would be to see if a listener is OK with chatting a bit first before you (if you choose to) open up. And I think anyone would understand if you aren't able to talk about it with them, you aren't under any obligation to, it's okay just to talk to a listener and see how you feel and go from there! Or if you need someone with experience in a certain topic you could search for that or make a post asking for that. Wishing you the very very best :) 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫶🫶🫶