When I say something foolish, and make a conversation too awkward for everyone involved. When I talk too long and realize I'm boring someone. Pretty much any time I realize I'm pushing people away.
Especially if I don't have my "sea legs" for that particular social environment. I don't know how many chances I'll get to make a positive connection. I haven't learned what unique expectations people have, how they form lasting judgements, how those judgements effect relationships, and how quickly I need to learn those things.
So lately, when I start a new job.
@hopefulEnnui i kno how u feel
When everyone tells me I'm crazy and it's all in my head and they don't believe depression is real. I'm struggling so bad and no one to turn to
@raspberryTortoise4356 you are not crazy. You just know what you want and need, and you will do anything to get it... Anyone who hasn't experienced depression thinks of it as if it doesn't exist. It's all in your head, but it still exist... It is very hard to think positive when you don't have anyone to turn to, but I can only hope you'll al least have a nice evening (or a day) because of my reply. I understand you... I can never explain to my friends how I feel, and they can never give me a right answer, or an advice.. I hope you you know that a lot of people care about you, even if you don't know them and there is always someone who understans you and feels exactly like you do. So please just try to be happy for at least the end of this day. I hope this message means a lot to you...
Love,
M❤
@M135792468 thank you so much you made me feel so good to know that someone actually does understand
When i realize everyone has someone looking out for em standing to defend and care for then unconditionally ...friends family rs .... except for me...!!
@Letsnotagain it's really sad to hear that you don't get the love and support (that you deserve for sure!!!!) from your family . But let me just say this.. I feel lonely all the time because I've never been in a relationship(only once, but he didn't really care for me) and even tho I get the love from my family, I can't turn to them when it comes to my loneliness.... But one thing I know for sure is that these days will be over, only one will wait longer than the other... But these days will come to an end. Try helping somebody out, it will make you feel a lot better about youself, that is how I menage my emotions. Or it you're a religious person, try praying. It helps. A lot.
Love,
M ❤
@M135792468 try helping someone.... i have been doing that every chance i get for over 3-4 years now.... helping people through situations i have been in so that they don't have to face it and feel its worse.... it made me happy first ...but your know what i got in return for that another known face to abandone me....
@Letsnotagain i understand you completely... It is always hard to feel abandoned, I've been there... I keep telling everyone a lot of advices on how they should accept the downs in their life, whilst I never really apply those same advices to my situations. So I will understand if you don't listen to anything I have to say.... But try thinking about this. You didn't just write that comment to be heard, you wrote it to see if you share same emotions with someone else. And you do... loneliness is the hardest thing in this world... i deal with it every single day. And I care about your problems. I wouldn't be writting this I don't. Today I feel very very blue and I have decited to try helping somebody in need of a conversation and empathy rather than talk about what's going on in my head. Please try to stay strong, and this positive for, if nothing, a minute. ❤
@M135792468 Hi, jus sayin hello and i feel the same as people on here
@MarcellusTorres we are all here because of the same, or similar reasons, right? We all feel down sometimes, and it feels right to tell somebody. Anybody. Just to be heard. And we're lucky if we get a reply with words that we want to hear. Everything will pay of, we just need to be good people. ❤
@M135792468 Yeah, still, do u jus feel empty inside even if u act or feel pretty good
@MarcellusTorres if you help others you can never feel empty. Unless it's just one of those bad days...
When I take care of my son alone and his father doesn't really help out or spend time with us
...life is so busy there is no time for my spouse and I to connect. There isnt anyone else real in my life.
@affableHouse1889 he(she) loves you. Just talk to your love one. He or she will understand everything, open up!
Love,
M❤
@M135792468
Thank you. I will.
I have no one to talk to about anything
@brightVase0414 when you're a teenager everything feels like the end of the world. Don't take everything too personaly, other kids are mean, some even without realising it. Whatever you're going through, it will pass... You are still very yound and have a whole life ahead of you.
Love,
M❤
When I've alienated everyone by either being too needy, clingy, untrusting, weird, skittish, or just because I'm not a "pretty girl"
@JadedSnowKitty u certainly look amazing.
@MarcellusTorres Thank you so much Marcellus
@JadedSnowKitty i mean it, never doubt ur excellence, corny as it may sound
@MarcellusTorres It doesn't sound corny to me. Sounds like very good advice. Just wish I could remember it when I'm feeling particularly low. My mind is often fogged at that point though. Perhaps the more I tell myself it, the more it will stick. Thank you for taking the time to talk to me. Have a good day.
@JadedSnowKitten tell it to yourself as often as possible. Because at the end of the day, who are those people to label you? If they think you're in some way different that just makes you better than them and more special. Hope you have a great day!
Love,
M ❤
@JadedSnowKitten u may talk to me anytime, i mean it.
@MarcellusTorres Thank you Marcellus, and vice versa.
@JadedSnowKitten I truly wish the best 4u and if i could i'd hug you
Im with a group of friends but I cant start or take part in conversation with people until someone talks to me first.
@gentleLemon24 that's because you're an introvert, and there's nothing bad about it! I'm also like that but in time I learned not to be so shy around everyone. You'll get there, just take some time... go step by step :)
When you're talking about something that you're interested in say your opinion!
Love,
M ❤
Seeing couples so in love then looking back at mine it's all one sided.....
It feels like no one wants to talk to me. I'm dying to tell him how I feel, but I always feel weird and awkward and then I decide he could never want me anyways. Cue the feelings of being alone!
