Self-Love: What is something you would like to gift yourself?
Often, we spend money and our thoughts shopping for gifts for others, but what is the gift you would like to gift yourself?
Me: A paid vacation with my family in a beautiful place
A two week vacation for me and family, with an endless supply of fresh seafood, exploration tours, and boat rides that teach up how to maneuver the boat properly. Ahhhh...paradise.
@adoredHug70 I would gift myself a well needed vacation with my family to somewhere we all want to go
A nice vacation to a beach with my partner where we can disconnect from the web and spend quality time together.
@adoredHug70 great reflective question!
If I could give myself one gift it would be to recognize my self-worth wholeheartedly. I am generally a confident outgoing person, however, have not respected my own self-worth throughout the years. I generally give more than I can afford and this equates to emotionally as well as financially which leaves little for myself. Upon reflection, I can see that alot of this comes down to knowing my self-worth and believing in it. That would be a worthy gift don't ya think?
I would love to go on a vacation with just my dogs and I. They love exploring, so probably somewhere tropical where people are nice and we could eat all of the foods there.
All the money in the world. :P
1 week all-expense-paid retreat to some island where I can just relax, meditate, be with nature and breathe some fresh air, get a full-body massage and other activities that will take my mind off from work and other stresses in life.
For me to honestly Self-Love ME. I have to better myself having BPD we love only when we feel others deserve it. I always make myself feel guilty. :/ One day I will give myself the love I deserve
@adoredHug70
I would like to give myself a whole day off. No work, no responsibilities, no studying, no housework, no worrying. Sleeping in, having a big breakfast, going to a yoga class, then preparing a nice lunch and going to drink coffee in my favorite little coffee shop. If I'm allowed to give myself even more, I would go for a 1-hour long massage. After that, spending the evening at home with my love, cooking and watching a funny movie. Oh, and somewhere in between there must be space for some ice cream :)
I've never allowed myself to spend a whole day like that but actually, I might do that next week :)
I would like to give myself an RV