Self-Love: What is something you would like to gift yourself?
Often, we spend money and our thoughts shopping for gifts for others, but what is the gift you would like to gift yourself?
Me: A paid vacation with my family in a beautiful place
forgiveness.
@beloved5461
Forgive yourself is a key to self-improvement.
@adoredHug70 sure thing! thanks!
@beloved31
Being brave and responsible for my dreams
@pinkTea
Yes you can achieve your dreams, too often people feel they can't achieve theirs but it is more achievable than not.
- the ability to value myself and show myself compassion
- a massage
- individual counselling sessions
- secular yoga classes
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to get myself to the thrift store to get new clothes, since I've gained weight
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to face my room mate and ask if she would please keep her dirty dishes on her counter and not in the sink so that I can do my own dishes
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to walk every day in order to maintain a healthy weight and help my mental health
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to wash dishes on a regular basis so I don't fall behind and cannot cook
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to cook healthy meals and portion them properly
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to go through my old clothing and get rid of the stuff that doesn't fit me
- the will/ motivation/ initiation or discipline to keep myself on a consistent sleep schedule
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to go to the doctor to see why I have this persistent dry cough that hitches my breath in my chest
the will/ motivation/ initiation to bathe on a regular basis and consistently do laundry
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to prioritize my happiness and not feel guilty, ashamed, or afraid because of it
- the will/ motivation/ initiation to keep up with my daily chores and responsibilities, and keep to a regular daily schedule
- a book shelf and craft organizing drawer to organize my room
@Zeraphim
Wow that's amazing, a long and detailed list! Wish you are able to complete all of those, best of luck!
I hope your many wishes come true
@adoredHug70
A nice vacation with my loved ones and a hug.
@Starryhugs
I can give u a hug now!
But yes everyone would appreciate a nice vacation sometimes! You need to unwind and then get going again!
@adoredHug70
Having spent a terrifying number of years my everything to everyone except myself, I would like to gift myself the strength to be my own person
If we are talking physical gifts then, @MorsVicta - I would totally take a spa day massage or a couple of days on a beach somewhere far far away.
@optimisticcup1
Strength to be my own person-that's more valuable than anything materialistic combined. :) Amazing gift.
@optimisticcup1 it all starts with self love and being selfish with yourself people will take offence to it at first but don't be shaken, this is what you owe yourself
Confidence!
@braveHuman2040
Yes confidence can be worked on, so don't give up.
@adoredHug70
From having anxiety, stress and insomnia over the past few months... this week Ive really changed myself for the better... I am thinking positively, I feel happy, I feel strong... my bad thoughts still come at times but through my positivity I push them away so they dont control me... I never thought I could do that but its like Ive had an awakening... I guess confidence will come as I still to love myself more and feel better about myself... thank you for your support!
Confidence
Ability to stay focused
@IAmFluffy
Those are some very great values you would like to gift yourself! :)
@adoredHug70
Id like to be able to keep myself from becoming obsessed with someone who decides they dont want me in their life
i have a depression and bipolar attacks which changes my personality and people cant handle what accidentally happens when I say and act out of control
even though I never actually hurt them
and explain and apologize over and over with deep regret
@Cheryl123
Hugs* I understand how bipolar changes the way you think and act, your emotions and your decisions. I am sorry some people wouldn't want you in their life Just know that plenty of us here at 7 cups would support you.
Same!!! A place where there is bountiful of nature and little bit cold :) Alaska, Ireland sounds lovely! @adoredHug70
@Nyssa2506
Sounds really lovely Nyssa! Hope it comes true for you!
Hope it comes tru for you too 
@adoredHug70
A puppy 
@Akshita0612
Puppies are cute little things that makes your heart warm :)
