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Self-Love: What is something you would like to gift yourself?

User Profile: adoredHug70
adoredHug70 October 18th, 2017

Often, we spend money and our thoughts shopping for gifts for others, but what is the gift you would like to gift yourself?

Me: A paid vacation with my family in a beautiful place

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User Profile: Needmorecats28
Needmorecats28 July 16th, 2018

Can I give myself a mentally-unstable possum with rabies?

User Profile: Smalltoaster
Smalltoaster July 16th, 2018

A trip to the US so I can visit my boyfriend.

User Profile: resourcefulbear6750
resourcefulbear6750 July 25th, 2018

A spa

User Profile: sunnyAcai8948
sunnyAcai8948 July 25th, 2018

the ability to read minds

A positive outlook on life and the strength to move on :)

User Profile: BeTheChangeYouWant
BeTheChangeYouWant July 26th, 2018

This is a really good question.. And I want to gift myself something I don't have yet, but i'm going to make a goal to try and work twords.

I want to give myself the gift of being able to let go and let be. I get caught up so often in "Replaying tapes" in my head either of what has already happened or of what I THINK will happen that I get so caught up in reading into my own assumptions and fortune telling about what i'm stuck on that I lose sight of the reality of the situations I am pondering, and as a result I cause myself anxiety and negative biases twords things that I don't have any control over and often have made up entirely in my own head!

In the end, I just feel like i'm stuck on a wheel going nowhere! It's something that I myself have complete control over, even if it doesn't FEEL like I do at the time, and is definitely an aspect of my self care that I can better embrace. I'm going to try mindfulness and look into seeking advice on ways to be more "in the moment" when I start these negative and self-defeating thought patterns, because I may not be able to change the world but I can certainly try and change myself!!

User Profile: lildakotalee
lildakotalee July 26th, 2018

Hummus

User Profile: Fanboyem
Fanboyem July 26th, 2018

big *ss fabulous Confidence

User Profile: placidSquare9564
placidSquare9564 July 26th, 2018

a clear mind

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User Profile: IconicVortex297
IconicVortex297 July 28th, 2018

@placidSquare9564 A good memory and to make some good memories

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User Profile: arrrow
arrrow July 26th, 2018

A Secure Home, Love that is True and enough money to get by and help others