Self-Love: What is something you would like to gift yourself?
Often, we spend money and our thoughts shopping for gifts for others, but what is the gift you would like to gift yourself?
Me: A paid vacation with my family in a beautiful place
Can I give myself a mentally-unstable possum with rabies?
A trip to the US so I can visit my boyfriend.
A spa
the ability to read minds
A positive outlook on life and the strength to move on :)
This is a really good question.. And I want to gift myself something I don't have yet, but i'm going to make a goal to try and work twords.
I want to give myself the gift of being able to let go and let be. I get caught up so often in "Replaying tapes" in my head either of what has already happened or of what I THINK will happen that I get so caught up in reading into my own assumptions and fortune telling about what i'm stuck on that I lose sight of the reality of the situations I am pondering, and as a result I cause myself anxiety and negative biases twords things that I don't have any control over and often have made up entirely in my own head!
In the end, I just feel like i'm stuck on a wheel going nowhere!
It's something that I myself have complete control over, even if it doesn't FEEL like I do at the time, and is definitely an aspect of my self care that I can better embrace. I'm going to try mindfulness and look into seeking advice on ways to be more "in the moment" when I start these negative and self-defeating thought patterns, because I may not be able to change the world but I can certainly try and change myself!!
Hummus
big *ss fabulous Confidence
a clear mind
@placidSquare9564 A good memory and to make some good memories
A Secure Home, Love that is True and enough money to get by and help others