Can never find anyone when I need someone

Sometimes I feel that if I were more popular or something, people would actually care about me. On my various social media sites I see a friend going through a tough time and they get so manypeople supportingthem and being there for them. But if I'm having trouble with life I'm lucky if I get 3 people there forme. I guess if I was more popular I'd get more support in what I want to do or know someone gives a crap. It's stupid and vain but I'm sick of this. I might be an attention whore or something but it'd be nice if people remembered I existed for once.