Coping with Depression as a Student
School can be challenging for many people, depression does not make it any easier. Unfortunately, its very difficult to do your best academically when your brain is clouded with depression. You may find that its much harder than usual to pay attention, think clearly, solve problems, and recall information. You also may lose your motivation to study and do homework. Suddenly, making good grades and getting into your dream college may seem like hopeless causes or pointless wastes of time. If youve always thought school was important, and suddenly it seems stupid and trivial, thats a classic example of depression at work.
If you are a student with depression, there are some things you can do with depression. One way might be working with your teachers.
Enlist the support of teachers. Believe it or not, theyre on your side. They want to see you succeed as much as you do, but they cant help if you dont communicate about your needs. If you're in middle or high school, ask your parents to request a conference where you, your parents, and your teachers can all sit down and share information. That may sound like the last thing most students would want to do, but in your situation, it can work to your benefit. For one thing, teachers are less likely to view you as a discipline problem when they understand that some changes in your behavior are the symptoms of a mental illness. For another thing, this type of meeting is the first step toward accessing additional help from the school.
Find creative ways to work around depression. Often, little changes can make a big difference. One of my biggest barriers at school for some was making it to class through the crowded hallways. Simply waiting a few minutes until the hall had cleared out helped immensely. Lets say you think this strategy might help you, too. To avoid being counted tardy every day, it just makes sense to talk to your teachers first, explain how this strategy will help you succeed, and ask for their support. Of course, the specific adjustments you request will depend on your situation. If youre having trouble getting things done while you adapt to a new medication, you might ask for extra time on an assignment. If you feel sluggish in the morning, you might try to schedule your most demanding classes later in the day.
Explore other options, if necessary. For most students with depression, relatively simple changes made through informal channels will probably be enough. However, if your symptoms are especially severe, you might need more extensive help. The Individuals with Disabilities Education Improvement Act of 2004 (IDEA) is the U.S. special education law, which applies to students who have a disability that affects their ability to benefit from general educational services. Some students with mental illness meet the criteria set out by the law. If you think you might need additional services at school, you can talk to your school to get an initial evaluation to determine whether you qualify under IDEA. If youre eligible, youll receive an individualized educational plan, a written educational plan that outlines the special services you need.
Making sure that your mind and body are healthy can be important in helping manage your depression. Basically, your state of physical health can influence your state of mental health all too easily – a good thing if you take care of yourself physically, and a bad thing if you dont. You can check this resource here for some tips on staying healthy while in university.
Finally, coping with any mental health issue is an immense struggle. Overcoming depression is neither quick nor easy, but it is far from impossible. When you are thoughtful about the way you perceive and feel about the events in your life, you become more sensitive and insightful to the world around you, and this will enable you to grow. You are given the chance to examine yourself critically without being critical of yourself. You learn to change the things you can and adapt to the things you cannot. I wish you all the best.
Discussion
1 How has your depression affected you as a student?
2 What are ways that you have coped?
3 What is one thing that you took away from this article?
Credits
1. Depression has affected my ability to do my homework and sometimes my ability to make it to class.
2. I have coped by having better self-care skills, but also by enlisting my professors in helping - it surprised me a lot how much teachers and professors will do to see you succeed!
3. I guess I never realized how many people are dealing with depression while going to school. It reminds me I'm not alone.
1 How has your depression affected you as a student?
It makes always feel like crying during class because of the negative thoughts going in through my head.
2 What are ways that you have coped?
I talked to my colunsler about my depression And I'm planning on talking to a teacher that I really trust a lot on getting advice for depression and advice on others things
3 What is one thing that you took away from this article?
That its ok to talk to a teacher about this stuff because most will be there for you and that crowded hall technice to.
@limegreenPlum9327
Hugs! I am sorry to hear that your thoughts cause you to cry a lot! I am glad to hear that you are talking to a counselor and that you are going to seek the help of your teacher that you trust. I am glad that you were able to see that it is okay to ask your teachers for help, also that you learned a new technique to use!
@BurningEmber
As a student I've gone downhill so much. I'm managing to keep straight A's barely. Now, though, I'm constantly interrupting class, making sarcastic comments, doing maybe half my homework, whatever studying i did do is now nonexistent, i don't pay attention in class, even sleeping through class, and being extremely argumentative. it's been rough. I don't really have a way to cope. mom thinks i'm fine, so does everyone else. i'm numb and i've stopped caring at all. What i get from this article is that other schools are way more accepting than mine. tbh these people don't care
@turquoisePine1459
Hugs! I am sorry to hear that you are going through such a tough time! It sounds difficult to have depression and feel like no one is taking it seriously!
@BurningEmber
1) I couldn't concentrate that means I couldn't study and that ended by failing my finals
2) I wasn't really using any coping way.. I was talking to my therapist, I was coming here and I was also writing in my journal but mostly i was keep living..
3) When you talk about the meeting that parents,student and teachers can do and how it would help letting them know. That actually wouldnt help me because my school (high school) is completely different from the ones in US or in Europe. There are no teachers that want to help you based on you mental ilness theres not even a counselour at school so it would be impossible to get help from school. But I'm happy that I have graduated and Im not going back there.
Is there a community forum for ppl who struggle with depression? Around their twenties. I also happen to be a student however i would often get discourage by my mother, this couple of years.
1. It's affected my ability to focus in class and remember every lesson taught. I'm there but my mind is always somewhere else.
2. I took more notes in classes and read them again at home. Also started trying to actually "learn" things rather than memorize them.
3. I guess I'm reminded that recovery isn't easy/instant, and you can't simply force yourself to feel better. Thanks for this post!
It did affect me.
There was a time when I even thought of ending it(but no suicidal thoughts anymore! Just at the moment).
Well, I went to see a counselor and a doctor at the time but in vain to be honest.
I completely agree with the article about enlisting the support of a teacher, because that's what help me through as well :)
@terrytee
i am glad you got support when you needed it.
@BurningEmber Thanks!
@BurningEmber support is the best thing ever!
1 How has your depression affected you as a student?
My depression has caused me to eat less, sleep less or more (never getting enough or getting too much), lose my motivation, isolate myself from others, and lose confidence in my abilities.
2 What are ways that you have coped?
Self-care, making sure to take care of things ahead of time to avoid stress, prioritize, know my limits, exercise, talk to loved ones about it, pushing myself to do more/get out there, and therapy.
3 What is one thing that you took away from this article?
Having depression as a student can be overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be. I can take steps to reduce stress or feelings of being overwhelmed.
@safeandsoundta
hugs! Thank you for answering ! It can definitely be overwhelming to be depressed and be a student but I am glad you can see steps you can take to make it a bit easier on you.