For whoever who wants to hear this... you will be fine
I know you, I feel you. I was in the same shoes.
It hurts as f... but let it be. Let it hurt. And believe me... you will start living again. You will hear all sounds, see all views. You will start feel your life again.
I'm with you. We're all in this together.
You will be fine.
@domi4040
Very comforting message domi <3💜
@domi4040, this is such a calming open post to all of us , thanks domi 😃
Thanks for the support.@domi4040
Thank you, this means a lot. I’m in a funk right now, trying to not make waves, trying to protect myself, but a firecracker of a person keeps coming in strong. They don’t realize what they’re doing, & no matter who tells them, or what is said to them, they’re ‘not the problem’ they’re ‘not doing’ what they’re being accused of, while doing exactly what we’re saying. I’m trying to figure out how to approach the situation in a different, positive way because I don’t want to hurt this person or have them feel the way I do, or feel attacked or ganged up on.
It can be really hard to protect yourself and the other person at the same time. Did you want to tell us more?@DarkFairy0316
It’s just the same stuff, different topic. This time, it’s because the person leaves the toilet seat up all the time (or the opposite of him leaving it down, then peeing all over the seat & not wiping it up afterwards) then, in the middle of the night, getting up & either giving myself a heart attack because the seat is up & practically falling into the toilet, or sitting down on a wet toilet seat…he’s been asked before to either wipe up the seat when he’s done, oe put the seat down many times, which has turned into a fight because someone is asking him nicely, & he takes offense to it, THEN it turns into him being picked on, & he’s outnumbered, & being ganged up on & him trying to pick a fight even further…& o hate fighting to begin with, so I don’t even want to bring it up to him in the first place. And he’s always the innocent party, he didn’t do anything wrong, & the other person ALWAYS came at him mad & trying to start a fight…& he’s NEVER yelling, NEVER trying to start a fight, he’s ‘ALWAYS just talking’ I wish I could get us to go to family therapy, & have someone there to help us talk things out, to help us learn to communicate better, to stop things from always ending up in a fight, everyone’s feelings getting hurt & no one talking to each other to try to fix things…but he will NEVER go because he doesn’t think he has a problem, & therapy is for everyone else, not for him
That can be really tough. Toilet seat issues are important. I hate falling in the middle of the night myself. I have my husband and 3 boys, but they are usually pretty good. Have you thought about installing a light or something musical that might cause him to remember?@DarkFairy0316
thank you domi, I really needed to hear this today.. sending warm thoughts ♥️
@domi4040
That's a nice note to play. Will try to remember it as best I can. Much of this month has been challenging & a recent possibility got my depression going....today was rough. I didn't do much at all.
Let's hope we all find some contentment & reduce our stresses soon.
Thanks <3