One thing I feel sad about right now is....
I'm sad because I miss my best friend. She's been gone for so long already but I still miss her every day.
That the man I am in love with has left me for another woman
@UnconditionalLover0517 hugs
That I keep losing friends and the fact that Im massively territorial/paranoid when they arent with me.
@LovingLoki17 As someone who has had many friends and have had as many leave me because they weren't able to have a friendship on terms that made me feel comfortable (e.g. I expect regular communication, taking the initiative equally to make plans, and respecting my boundaries) as I willingly left, I can share that not all friendships are meant to be, in fact, most don't last. We befriend different people at different stages of our lives and as we grow we might outgrow them or they us. My social circle has fluctuated in size dramatically over time and while it's difficult to accept times when it has shrunk I just focus on cultivating the traits that are in alignment with those I look for in others and trust that when the time is right other people will find my friendship as desireable as I find theirs. Ask yourself what sort of friends you want in your life (I believe the people you choose for friends should be people who you admire and want to be more like - because research shows we become more like our friends over time). Then ask yourself if this is a good time in your life to commit the time necessary to make new friends. Then ask yourself where you are most likely to meet them and put yourself out there with confidence, being sure to let others know when they stimulate your curiousity or made you laugh. Smile. Be honest but take your time disclosing about who you are...focus on bringing your share of the fun but be authentic, too.
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Im sad because I have to go back to school and Im afraid to have another breakdown
I'm sad because i can't mange my feelings and don't know what's wrong with me
I keep trying and trying but things never gets easier for me
my life. I makes me sad
I lost an old dear friend because I chose to pursue a relationship with him after 8 years, it only lasted a year and he left me for someone else when I thought I was pregnant, and three months later they announced their new baby on the way. Its been almost a year and it still hurts as much as ever and my friends think it's been too long for be to still be hurting.. I don't know if this is just typical heart break or if I'm crazy for feeling this way..
@Crionicstone we all process grief at different speeds. Only you can know how you feel. Be kind to yourself.
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