One thing I feel sad about right now is....
Not being able to be perfect despite how hard I try
@haddlepaddle no one is perfect that's what makes the world so unique.
@Mommymoves96 but with that lack of perfection I feel like I cant and haven't accomplished anything
@haddlepaddle feel free to message me, but Ik in the same situation but dwelling is the worst thing you could do please if you can connect with me
Can I be sad for no reason?
@Tinycupcake yes!
@impartialCar5809 any idea of why I'm just sad?
@Tinycupcake Being human comes with a wide range of emotions that we can experience at any time. Have you had anything happen like not sleeping enough or not eating a proper meal that may have made your body not feel up to par? Sometimes not having our physical need a met can effect our emotions
@impartialCar5809 That could be it. My sleep is way off and I eat about one meal a day
@Tinycupcake I would try and make sure that you're eating enough and sleeping enough first. Make sure you are taking care of your physical needs and then you can go from there and see if there's anything else that might be causing you to feel sad.
@impartialCar5809 Thank you. ❤
@Tinycupcake Of course! ❤
My closest friend passed this morning and I am not ok.
@JB151 I am so sorry to hear about your loss. If you need talk I am here.
@JB151 Today marks five months since my fiance passed. I just want you to know that it's okay to not be okay. In the days ahead, be sure to take a breath, and take in everything that is going on around you. The days following his death, I have little recollection of what happened. I let the funeral and everything around it fly by me, and I now hate that I wasn't mentally there to adjust to what life is now. I'm here if you need to talk.
@intuitiveOcean3230 this hurts so much. He was such a positive light in an often too dim world. His smile and his laughtet wss contagious. He could brighten up anyones day, no matter how dark the day was. I just want him to call and tell me none of this is true. I want one his hugs. His smiles. He was family to me. I feel so numb, so broken, so hurt. I miss him so much.
@JB151 One of the hardest realizations is that they aren't just a call away anymore. All of these emotions are part of grieving. I hoped for an entire month that I was going to wake up, and none of it would be true. Take your time, learn to be okay on your own time. Surround yourself with his family and friends. Have a get together with his closest friends, and trade stories of him. Laugh with them, and cry with them. Let them help you heal.
@intuitiveOcean3230 a few of us have brought up having a memorial for him. I keep thinking about September and I'll get to see him then, but remembering he won't be there. He won't be out scaring with us. I won't be able to have our weekend talks about everything. I don't want yo believe this is true.
@JB151 Y'all really should do a memorial. It'll help everyone who was close with him. It's hard to try to grasp that it's true. Think about all the times you had with him, and focus on that. So try not to think about the things he won't be there for. You have to take it day by day. Trying to look at all thing things he'll miss will hold you in your emotions. Life becomes so scary so fast. Don't hesitate to do something in his honor
...knowing that she gave up on someone who would've NEVER given up on her
Not being able to make up with a friend because we are both too stubborn.
That my fiancé might leave me for another girl because I was stupid and read messages I had no right reading. But I know there is something up and he wont let me in.
Having to go to schooollllllll tomorrow
It's like I'm looking at life from a third person point of view. Not really having any purpose or direction. Doomed to be the floor guy at Kroger for the rest of my fucking life. Never gonna be anyone great. All my friends have families and kids and shit, and I'm just here smoking my brain away and waiting for the day I die. A waste of a fucking human.
i just ruined my not bad relationship.
Not trying as hard as I could being a better father and husband. Letting my anxiety take over temper
