relationships
how do i get over the fact that i think im not good enough for anyone. i'm currently getting into a relationship right now and i keep slowing things bc what if im not good enough for her she deserves so much more than me i just dont know how to get past this feeling. will i ever? or am i destined to be alone my whole life
@tinypetal
I am sorry you're experiencing this. Your own insecurity is being projected onto this relationship, despite it not being relevant because how you view yourself is not applicable to a relationship, because the person dates you based on how they view you! Learning to love yourself and maybe asking your partner what they like about you and believing it may help reduce the insecurities you feel. Look at yourself through their eyes. I am sure there is plenty to love and enjoy about you - don't be so hard on yourself!
@SilentSerenityy she is so good to me her and her friends are so nice and accepting towards me and ive never experienced that so its hard to take in im trying to like accept it but its hard
@tinypetal
Have you considered speaking to a 7 Cups therapist about this? It seems it is a deep seated issue for you that needs more support.
@SilentSerenityy no not yet im fairly new to this website im still figuring everything out
@tinypetal
Here is the therapist page if you would like to take a look and see if it's for you. Of course, therapists cost money, unlike the volunteer listeners here so keep that in mind. I wish you and your relationship the best!
