Difficulties making friends
I’ve been trying hard to meet people I feel not only understand me, that I understand them, but that we’re alike in ways I need. Of course I expect differences, those are needed but it feels as if I can’t meet consistent people. It’s been a lonely feeling bc it feels like I’m constantly trying to connect with others but just can’t. Not that life is against me but sort of feels like it’s pushing me towards being by myself at times.
@dreamerboyvix
I Think it is hard because usually things start off well then you may find differences that make it harder
i had a good friend and she was friends with another person ...
when my good friend moved she said i should hang out with other person........except when i was around her with my friend ........i was confused as i did not see that i and anything in common or even similar views........ but i gave it a try for the sake of my original friend..........
rocky at first......... both hesitant to be much more then cordial ...but once we both opened up i cannot tell you how great a friend i have now ....... that I would have skipped over .......
friends are often the people you did not see or maybe as i did misjudged on first sight.......
I tell this story because sometimes the friend you need is NOT who you expect........