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I feel like I’m more loneliness than I am human being at this point.

User Profile: zdz
zdz March 4th, 2021

I want to meet new people... I can’t meet new people. I have zero outlets to encounter and get to know new people. Neither work nor school are options. I genuinely have no other reason or excuse or option to go out and naturally meet people. Meeting people online has never worked in the slightest. I want to make new friends and especially have a relationship sometime down the road, but not only do I not have any healthy way to do any of that, I just don’t have *any* way, period.

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User Profile: Asher
Asher March 4th, 2021

Thank you for sharing this with us here.

User Profile: fairyava
fairyava March 4th, 2021

@zdz

Opening up about how you've been feeling isn't easy, I am proud of you for reaching out! It sounds like you don't have many outlets to meet new people, and meeting people online hasn't been super helpful either. You're in a supportive community and you are always welcome to connect with an available listener on 7cups here or join a support room here! You want to make new friends, and you sound like you're ready to do so, having that motivation is the first step. Best of luck. heart

User Profile: agreeableHickory9108
agreeableHickory9108 March 10th, 2021

Hey there ❤️ I am currently in the same situation as you, due to some personal issues in home. Literally no going out, bounded in home, I currently work at home only so no human interaction except my fam. I feel lonely, and I feel terrible about it, and feeling helpless and worthless about it is just the icing over the cake. So I totally get what you are feeling right now. Just know that you are not alone, there are others like you, me as well :) However, you can try joining an activity, some club, or you can try to pursue your hobbies, and get in touch with people sharing same hobbies as you. What I mean to say is, If you don't have a reason, you can surely try to create some. I might be helpless right now, but I sure try to keep in touch with people, or wish to make some reasons to meet people. However, all this doesn't have to be too fast, you already have taken first step to reach here :) keep going! Lots of love and support ❤️

User Profile: learnlearnlearn
learnlearnlearn March 17th, 2021

We are in a loneliness pandemic.