@lifesucks58
It's a shame you've had to move back home where you feel you have to hide your feelings and thoughts. Must be difficult to live like that. I was in a religion that taught no sex outside of marriage and that masturbation was wrong and that you needed to ask God for forgiveness. Since leaving that religion it has been a relief to not feel guilt wherever I masturbate. I think sex and sexuality is a difficult topic for many people to talk about truly honestly because everyone fears being judged.
@Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas
Yeah man it really sucks. I wish I Could just talk with someone about all this stuff
@lifesucks58
Hi How you doing today? I was looking through the listeners and wondered if @MirrorMan would be someone good for you to talk to. Have a look at his profile and see what you think. If you tag him in a post he should see it and be able to contact you directly I believe.
@Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas How do I tag someone?
@lifesucks58
Just like your username above. Put @ and the username and it sends them an alert. I found another one for you but I've forgotten the name now. I'll look again later and let you know.
Hows it all going?
@lifesucks58
Found it @SentryTheDefiant, thought this one sounded an even better fit for you. Read through the bio it's quite long but gives you all the information you need to decide if you want to talk to him.
Hope you find someone you can talk to 🤗
@Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas
How do I send a message to someone on this site? like a listener? how do I find a specific one such as @SentryTheDefiant
@lifesucks58 Hi Click on where it says CHAT. Then click on browse listeners. There is a space to fill in the listeners name to search for them. When you find the listener that you are looking for you will be able to leave a message for them. I hope this helps.
@adventurousBranch3786
@lifesucks58 sorry I just assumed you didn't have that option because new people can't do that anymore they have to use the queue chat and get any listener. But if you have that option that's the easy way, try that first. If when you do that it comes up with the message saying you have to post and use the queue to earn trust then tagging listeners is the work around that's been suggested to get to talk to your selected listener.
@Everythingisbetterinyourpyjamas Thanks , I didn't know about that.
@lifesucks58 just believe in your self
@lifesucks58 I think I have similar experiences with you. Personally, sex and sexuality is such a fun topic to talk about and I have just found friends where we can freely talk about our sexual interests without judgement and uplift one another while having a great time. We talk about masturbation and hook-up fantasies like any normal conversation topic and it has been really freeing and hilarious! Finding a community where you can speak like this has definitely done wonders for my self-confidence and feeling good in my own skin. It really is a shame how sex and sexuality are seen so taboo, it is such a natural part of being human. Being raised in a very socially conservative family while having similarily conservative friends up until now has indeed been a weight on me. I never really realized it until now. But I promise you, there are people out there where you can speak about these kinds of things without worry or judgement, the trick is to find them and become comfortable with the topic yourself. It was bizarre for me to speak about my sexual interests casually for the first time, I was worried about so much judgement (Which was tough for someone who was terrified of abandonment, and has been judged and abandoned before) but if you find people who are like-minded as you are and have been comfortable talking about subjects like this, there is no doubt you will grow comfortable speaking about it to... and eventually feel less restrained. I promise you, you are not alone in this experience and I genuinely hope you can find people to comfortably speak to about subjects like these.
@honeybenadryl
Ha, i wish I could get to know you and your friends. I don't have any idea how to find that type of environment
