One difficult life situation I am facing right now is....
Being stuck with someone who's bad for my mental health.
Getting away from an ex.
My life and family life is veryu complicated. . . My brother is an amputee, my uncle works, my mom just had hernia surgery and has been slow in healing and all of my health issues keep me from working. Our live in situation is not usual. . . my grandma died and left so much debt that we lost the family house.
Our situation is so hard, I can't even get a cat. Or landlord is very mean and they don't care about the place. We have very friendly neighbors who are in a similar issues.
Just hope we get a better place soon and i get a doctor that can help me with my health issues.
@Rebekahwriter13
Sounds like a really difficult situation. A cat would be so good to help with your mood and relieve some stress. But it's often when we're struggling the most that we can't afford what would be best for us :s. I really hope things get better for you soon, keep hanging in there!
@MuchAdoAboutNothing thank you please send good vibes
Well I have more then one but right now I just feel so alone that no one cares, difficulty finding a job, hating myself, worrying about everything I say or do when I know none of it matters
@sympathetic5745
Been there. I finally got a job but now I'm struggling to get an apartment. Anxiety and phone calls, my favorite duo...
Depression, anixety, the fact no one cares at all, i'm losing my sanity and everyone oof
hi @ImFineTrustMe
hugs and sent u all love
People bringing up the past
A month ago today, my boyfriend broke up with me. Ive been through a few breakups before this one, but I cant seem to move past it. This boy is always on my mind and I see him everyday at school. It would be ok if he were like my last boyfriend who tried to avoid me so I could move on, but he doesnt do that. For the first week after he broke up with me, he wouldnt leave me alone. He was desperate to keep me in his life, but only as a friend. Yet he kept flirting with me and basically acting like we were still together. He was playing with my emotions and when I told him that, he denied it and started being rude. I told him that its clear that he wants to be with me, and his response was, of course I want to be with you, duh. But he still refused to get back with me. Theres also another girl in the picture, but he cant be with her (very complicated situation). I blocked him after two weeks and we havent spoke since. I dont know why Im having such a hard time right now, but its taking a toll on my mental and physical health. My school work as well. I cant let go because Im waiting for the impossible to happen. Hes infected my mind and I dont think he knows it. I dont know what to do or how to cope and my parents refuse to let me talk to a therapist about it (yes, I know this is a normal thing in life, but I dont seem to handle it well) and I get yelled at whenever I speak of him to my family or friends. Theyre all annoyed with me. I need help.
hi @Honestcar809
first if u can't be with him as friend leave him .
2- and it important note run run girl away bc he is take advantage of u .
3- there out alot of people good out there start too meet them make friends with them .u can see theripest online u should bc u really need one .
hope u all good luck .
I have been unemployed since November of last year. I have been trying and trying to get a job and have had several interviews but nothing has come of it. My car is breaking down and my bills are coming in and I have been so overwhelmed with it all. My depression has gotten worse than it has been since before I started taking meds. It's so hard.
I've lost a friend I've really been relying on and I've been having a meltdown ever since. I needed them and have nobody else I can be that open and honest with and now I'm scared of even trying to find somebody I can talk to because this is just going to happen again. I really struggle to open up to people and now I'm even more afraid of doing it. I miss them and I really hope they're doing okay but I feel completely hopeless now.
pressure from family and friends to do things that I don't think I can do and that I have no motivation at all to do anything
@Sadboi20 hey, i understand that. Its really hard to have motivation when youre depressed, everything starts sprillaing for the worst then once you know it, youre eating bad and sleeping a lot. We can only force ourselves to be contructive untill we feel better and its no longer forced