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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo October 3rd, 2023

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[A candle and colourful leaves are about the script give thanks]

Where I am, Thanksgiving is on Oct 9.


What are you thankful for this week?

What would you bring to a Thanksgiving gathering?
(food and non-food answers welcomed)

How are you feeling?

Is there anything you would like support with?



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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP October 3rd, 2023

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User Profile: moonlightMittens7125
moonlightMittens7125 October 3rd, 2023

Love it. Have two Thanksgivings cause I get the double pumpkin pie.


i bring sodas, cups, homemade ice (secret family receipe).


and i cry cause I miss those who have gone before us.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 3rd, 2023

@CATastrophizing huuggggs you ❤❤ and ewwww! Pumpkin pie 😝 ❤

User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP October 11th, 2023

@CATastrophizing Oh yum to extra pumpkin pie!

This secret ice recipe - is it cubes, crushed or something else?

Yes, I do hear you, grief can be mixed in with that too.

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User Profile: moonlightMittens7125
moonlightMittens7125 October 11th, 2023

Homemade ice


place water in freezer safe container

pet sit for a few hours

remove from said container

enjoy!

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP October 11th, 2023

@CATastrophizing Haha so a large chunk of ice! Love it!

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User Profile: moonlightMittens7125
moonlightMittens7125 October 11th, 2023

Serving directions


place ice chuck in ice bucket


Take the hammer and chisel to it


keep working at in until desired size chunk

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 3rd, 2023

@AffyAvo thanksgiving isn't really a holiday in the uk😞 but I'm originally from America, so the chefs here at the care home, do a special cooked dinner and we say thank you to God for all our blessings. I would bring to a thanksgiving gathering🤔🤔 party hats, and balloons to make it fun, and a small gift for everyone ❤ I'm doing ok ❤ just my pain levels have been kinda high the past few days

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP October 11th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 I like the idea of balloons!

I hope the pain levels come down soon!

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User Profile: Bndonovan02
Bndonovan02 October 3rd, 2023

I’m thankful for my parents. Yes, they can drive me up the walls, but they are also supportive and understanding. Me being open to them about my physical and mental health is new to them, but they are trying to understand it all.

For Thanksgiving, I’d bring all the food!! I love cooking and feeding people. It’s one of my favorite things.

Unfortunately, overall I feel like crap. I physically and mentally overdid it last week and now I’m in the negative for spoons. I had a lot of fun (parents visit, 5 baseball games in 6 days, poker night) but I am paying for it now. I just started my first week of 4 10 hour shifts and I’ve been doing 5 8 hour shifts for the last 9 years. I’m also pet sitting so I have to go take care of the best cats twice a day. I am completely spent already and could barely get out of bed this morning. This weekend won’t be relaxing as my parents are coming back up and it’s another poker weekend and ALDS baseball game and I have my first cardiology appointment Friday (thankfully I have that day off). I also said I’d help another friend with her dog while she’s away this weekend. I know I’m stretching myself way too thin. I just hate saying no to people.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP October 11th, 2023

@Bndonovan02 Oh all you did is making me feel tired! I do hope you are getting some time to rest!

I'm glad your parents are supportive even if they are still learning.

And woohoo to the cook! Love the host or the bringer of food. I like to make a dish or 2, but but I can't do it all.

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User Profile: WinterRose9
WinterRose9 October 3rd, 2023
  1. 1.I am thankful for this week because this week has taught me that there are people that do love me for me and not for my looks.
  2. Food wise I would bring a double chocolate banana bread or home made red velvet cinnamon rolls. I would also bring some board games
  3. Honestly, I feel good for once in my life I feel at peace. I feel secure in my relationship.
  4. Not at this time, thank you for asking 💖


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AffyAvo OP October 11th, 2023

@PhoenixButterfly97

That's awesome there are people who love you for you and you're secure in your relationship.

I'm intrigued by the rolls, I know what red velvet cake is, I know what cinnamon rolls are but am having difficulty having it as one thing.


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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 October 7th, 2023

It's hard for me to be thankful this week, as I am another year older & not feeling any better for it. But if I had to list reasons for gratitude...here's something:

  • got a roof over my head & walls to keep out the weather (even if they're shabby)
  • food
  • art & craft supplies. Life would be completely miserable without those.
  • some money in the bank, metaphorically speaking

As for how I'm feeling this week, my right hip is bothering me as is part of my lower back. Growing old stinks. The conventional wisdom is "it beats the alternative!"...even so, sometimes I wonder if that's true.

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 October 7th, 2023

Almost forgot: For a Thanksgiving get-together, I'd bring wines. Good wines. At least one red & one white.

If anyone needs to abstain, however, that's fine & I understand. Wine is not for everyone.

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AffyAvo OP October 11th, 2023

@slowdecline48

I understand not feeling thankful, but you come up with a good list anyway! Food shelter, entertainment and some degree of financial means.

Sorry to hear your pains is bad.

Wine is a great thing for the right crowd. It's a waste for me to open it at home in a normal week, but I do enjoy a glass when with others!

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 October 11th, 2023

@AffyAvo *shrug* Eh...it is what it is. I don't know of any guarantee that our bodies will always work the way they're supposed to. (If there is such a guarantee then please tell me where to find it. Quite a few of us would be entitled to refunds!)

If you were here, I'd pour us both a glass for conversational lubricant--if you wanted one. If not then I would understand. Chronic conditions can definitely reduce one's appetite for festivities.

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