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Do you feel comfortable with the word "disabled"?

User Profile: painchronicwordsiconic
painchronicwordsiconic August 6th, 2022

Question for y'all out there with invisible disabilities like chronic pain, migraines, or mental health issues: do you feel comfortable using the word "disabled"? What has your relationship with "disability pride" been like-- do you feel it applies to you? Do you feel like it's a community you can engage with? Why do you feel that way? As somebody with both mental health and physical issues, all of which are invisible, I've been thinking a lot about this recently, and would love to hear from you guys what your thoughts are.

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User Profile: CocoaCassie
CocoaCassie February 21st, 2023

@painchronicwordsiconicI hate being called 'registered disabled' I know it gets me help and extra support but I hate it.

User Profile: wonderfulRainbow817
wonderfulRainbow817 February 23rd, 2023

@painchronicwordsiconic, the word doesn't phase me anymore

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User Profile: SilentSerenityy
SilentSerenityy March 1st, 2023

@wonderfulRainbow817 I'm happy to see that you've grown to accept the term. <3

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User Profile: CocoaCassie
CocoaCassie March 6th, 2023

@SilentSerenityyWhy should we learn to accept it?

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User Profile: NeonGlass
NeonGlass March 6th, 2023

@painchronicwordsiconic I have ADHD, I'm OK with "Disabled" but I feel like there should be more words to describe the severity of the disability. When I say "I have a mental disability" People automatically think "oh he is highly autistic and had PTSD" or something as severe and it's annoying to explain to them that ADHD isn't a life treating illness.