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User Profile: willingSugar9815
willingSugar9815 June 1st, 2023

Someone called me fat today and sure they are right and all, but since friday i have been making sure to at least do 10 000 steps, monitor my eating and trying to eat healthier alternat then package food, i’ve ended loss a little bit of weight. Everyone keeps commenting on it and i don’t see why, so what i’m walking more, i barely know these people and they are continually saying stuff about it even after i tell them why and saying that i’m weird or giving me glare and dirty looks for talking to them when there friend asks me. Am I the problem in all this or am i over reacting and am weird?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 June 1st, 2023

@willingSugar9815

Many times when a person starts a exercise routine or diet .....people even acquaintances make comments noticing your changes ...... " have you lost weight"

I believe it is meant to be supportive and friendly but if a person is not comfortable with their progress etc they may deflect ........ saying "oh just starting not making progress i want etc " this tend to make them feel uncomfortable in not knowing how to answer........

Much like a cashier asking how is your day they seldom think someone is going to tell them their whole day etc.....

User Profile: TheMadHatterWasHere
TheMadHatterWasHere June 5th, 2023

@willingSugar9815 Ask them to shut their mouth, if they don't have anything nice to say. Fatshaming is NEVER ok!