A Small Change In Thinking ! 💭

Hello, all !! This is my first post in this forum! I have been thinking about this from days but yay, it's out ! I hope you all like it and learn something maybe? :)

This might be for people who suffer from eating disorders or body image issues, i guess? I hope whatever I am going to say makes sense. Also, I don't invalidate what you go through, I have been through that myself too. I don't mean to make this a rude post, as such and all. I don't want that. I just want to spread to you all, what I think, which might help you.I want to help~ I want to put forward about a point I have been thinking about. :)

To begin with let me show this quote :-

"And if what you are, is a strange you.."
"Doesn't mean, you should change you"
"Only means, you should change your point of view"

Let me explain it slowly -->

🤫 "And if what you are,
is a strange you.."

You might be thinking you look, horrible, disgusting, and unworthy and stuff like that, to the point you will hate seeing yourself in the mirror, or just see in the mirror, about how bad your pimples look, how fat you look, though you may be thin, or you are being too thin, or your jawline is just not perfect.. Or your friends will make fun of your dressing style.
That's just what you are thinking which is not true!! Trust it. It's not true. That's where you need to change, in your thinking!

🤫 "Doesn't mean,
you should change you"

When I say that, I mean that, when people say you are fat and skinny and just ugly and disgusting, you don't have to change for them at all.. You don't need to. They must learn to accept the society the way it is, and how it is, they can't blame others for being the way they are. It's never acceptable, and there is never a need to succumb to it. :)

🤫 "Only means,
you should change your point of view"

When I say the previous statement, I mean to say, that you can try to change your thinking.
You can't keep depending on others for accepting your body.It's not about them. It's about you. They should worry about their own thinking, or they may be even jealous, who knows? It's your body, you have all control over it. You must give it the right nutrition. You can accept who you are for yourself. When you have no one else, you must be comfortable with and that could always be yourself. You are living for yourself, not others. Otherwise, what's the point of living?

I don't mean to make this a rude post, as such and all. I don't want that. I just want to spread to you all, what I think, which might help you. Remember, you are valued, important, perfect, loved, cared, helpful, amazing, and you don't have to change for anyone else, only for yourself. And I am already very very proud of you if you read so far !!! 🤗 And you deserve better and more happiness!! I am always here to congratulate you on your small victories :D


Think about it 😊

Inspired by Barbie ! :D | Made this, with- kieran000 ( clickable link )

Thank you~

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🤫 I use this emoji to mention the points I say! I don't mean to be rude at all! It's just for fun.

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