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Miss Take

User Profile: imaginativesquare254
imaginativesquare254 April 29th, 2023

A few months ago while talking to my kids about contraceptives, I invertently said one of our family planning methods had backfired and that's why our second born daughter had been born


A few days ago she started calling herself Miss Take on her social media handles. So today I heard her telling her brother that I had told them she had been a mistake


Am heartbroken 💔

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User Profile: LostTurtle2
LostTurtle2 April 29th, 2023

If she means it in a joking way, it's not a big deal. Maybe you can joke about it with her?

User Profile: compassionateOak202
compassionateOak202 April 29th, 2023

@imaginativesquare254 Im so sorry to hear that! I hope your daughter may eventually come to an understanding how much she means to you as a parent. :(

User Profile: EthanS777
EthanS777 May 7th, 2023

@imaginativesquare254 I’m so sorry to hear this and I’m even more sorry that your daughter feels that way. Have you talked to her about how you feel about here and that she is not just a “Mistake” to you?

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User Profile: imaginativesquare254
imaginativesquare254 OP May 7th, 2023

We have talked and she knows how I feel about her. But for some reasons she always believe I favor the other kids. And she's not a talkative one so she keeps feelings bottled deep inside

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User Profile: PeacefulSun5009
PeacefulSun5009 May 9th, 2023

@imaginativesquare254

I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. It sounds like a difficult situation, and I can understand why you're feeling heartbroken. Remember that it's never too late to repair a relationship and that with time, effort, and love, you can work towards rebuilding your daughter's trust and self-esteem. Thank you for reaching out to this group.