Pregnant SAHM needing support
Hello.
I am a stay at home mom with 2 kids and 1 on the way...
One of my children is autistic. Which I'm also a full time caregiver to.
Today was ... A rough day.
Needless to say, I feel the weight of my responsibilities. And it feels heavy. Like, really heavy.
I don't have the support I need yet and I feel like I'm failing at life.
My stepdad is elderly ( can barely see) and my mom is a narcissist.
My spouses parents are too elderly to watch children and the family he has in town isn't trustworthy.
I honestly don't know why life is so hard..
I've never felt so lonely in my life.
Everyone that agrees that I need support, isn't supporting me.
Everyone that knows I have a lot on my plate, don't even call to check on me.
I just want someone around that understands my life and that can help...
Is that too much to ask?
@Cherri7833 Hello, I want you to know that I hear you and acknowledge the challenges you're facing. Being a stay-at-home mom with two children, one of whom is autistic, and another one on the way is undoubtedly a tremendous responsibility. It's understandable that you feel the weight of your duties, and it can become overwhelming at times.
Feeling unsupported can make everything even more difficult. It can be disheartening when the people around you, who recognize your need for support, don't offer the assistance you crave. Loneliness in such situations is a common experience, and it's natural to long for someone who understands your life and can lend a helping hand.
Please remember that you are not alone, even though it may feel that way. Many others have gone through or are going through similar challenges, and they understand what you're facing. Seeking support from communities and organizations that cater to parents of autistic children can provide you with a network of understanding individuals who can relate to your experiences.
While I may not be physically present, I'm here to listen and offer support in any way I can. Feel free to share your thoughts and concerns. Sometimes, having a space to express yourself can provide a sense of relief. Remember, taking care of yourself is equally important, and reaching out for support is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Take care, and know that you're doing your best, even in the midst of difficulties.
@Cherri7833
It's not at all unreasonable to want someone who understands your situation and can offer help. Caring for a child with special needs while managing a household is a tremendous undertaking, and seeking support is not too much to ask for.
Remember that reaching out for help, whether it's through friends, family, or local support groups, can make a difference. You can also reach out to me whenever you would like, remember you're not alone in this, and your feelings are valid. It's important to prioritize your well-being and seek out the support you deserve.
