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Should i cut off ties...

User Profile: Anakya
Anakya July 3rd, 2023

my dad made some really unsensitive comment about a subject in perticular and he also has some beliefs that i personnaly think are super wrong and he wont make apologises. i decided to cut tie with him for a while but now im wondering if it was the right thing to do. He still wont make apologies or virw the subject in a different way. This subject is very important for me so it bothers me that he see things that way.

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User Profile: TextbooksAndTypewriters
TextbooksAndTypewriters July 3rd, 2023

I’m in the process of moving away from home in January and am also going through the decision to cut ties with a toxic parent. Just know that I hear you and understand *hugs*

User Profile: lightSailboat7796
lightSailboat7796 July 3rd, 2023

@Anakya I understand that it can be challenging and hurtful when there are differences in beliefs and values, especially when it involves someone close to you like your dad. It's important to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being in such situations.

User Profile: Anakya
Anakya OP July 3rd, 2023

Thank you its very hard cause he made some really insensitive comments to something that also concern my little brother (not the same dad tho) so its why its so upsetting and also i did reach to my dad to see if he would apologize or at least try to listen to my side and all he does is telling me that hes the one whos right and its all my fault.

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 July 3rd, 2023

@Anakya

i can agree to cut off toxic people .........but the error is expecting them to change simply because you cut ties ... many people do this think it will result in change ....... many do not .....often the opposite happens and they dig deeper in their position.

The way to come to an understanding requires sincere discussion and sometimes agree to disagree but making the effort.