Constant Conflict
I am married and for well over a year now things are always going wrong. Last fall my spouse was diagnosed with cancer. Surgery was successful but needs to do scans and other tests every 3 months. They are very expensive and now my spouse is refusing to go back to the drs, even though he is having bad symptoms again. He will not listen to anyone's pleas. All he cares about is the expenses we've already had and just paid a huge amount from his surgery.
I am lost. Noone to turn to. Then the icing on the cake is finding out he's telling others that I don't want him to do anything..which is so untrue. I have been begging him for months now. Anyone ever gone through this?
@Bum4Life
There are so many things going through a persons head when diagnosed with a bad condition....
many know treatment and such will cost a lot and so they worry about finances on top of true fear that their condition may be worse then they think.... I try to put myself in my persons shoes ....
he may have told others you were on board with not doing some treatment ( although untrue) to deflect other people telling him that the refusal of treatment is silly ..... saying you agree may give them the false sense that things are not as bad as they assume.