Maybe i am wrong
So spouse and I had a meeting in an ongoing legal issue.
It seemed more important to my spouse to look as if he was the GOOD/ charming guy to lawyers whom i really doubt we will ever see again ...............but if he looks like a sellout to me or family .....so WHAT seems to be his attitude. He has acted like a child for 4 days now because I called him out on this.
The lawyer we spoke with walked up shook hand and introduced himself to spouse IGNORED me all together i think it was sexist thing. but spouse makes every excuse in world about i was too sensitive but he did same thing to other side only speaking to the MAN in conversation.
I would rather look honest/ trustworthy / caring to family and friends then people whom i will never see again ... i do not think people should be jerks but do not be swarmy and suck up to people that in the big picture just do not matter.
@toughTiger6481
took some time to reflect and he sees my point now.
i see i am more angry about having to justify my feelings. i have a lot of items going on and frankly sometimes anger or worry or other emotions leak from one situation to another. i think it is from years of suppressing if you open a door it all spills out.
