Mother issues ( Jealous )
I want to share something happened with me today and actually it reminds me of all my mistakes that I did in the past. My mom is jealous of me especially when my father give me attention or speaking about like or any topic and what proves that is what happens today, I was sitting and then playing with my phone my father came to me and said can you read what's letter written their in his clothes he usually ask mom than she said and why you ask and mentioned my name My grandmother was like she's your daughter like she was telling her jealous from her.
When I just think of it i remember that all my issues came from her also I am not a good speaker and in work they relized that it's all maybe because of her that she always shout when we give our opinion or being happy and when she gave problem with father she through it on us also none of my brother they has a strong personality like what other people we see do
I feel overwhelmed and this affecting me with work like I can’t share my feelings I’m always afraid from judgement and no one is hearing me also all my brothers facing same issues we can’t speak and if I start I feel I’m silly smile or do weired reaction
@practicalShip4438
I'm sorry your mother is not secure enough to realise your relationship with your dad is different from hers.
And shouldn't take away from it.
You are deserve the peace and the space to speak your mind, without fear of her arguing 💚
Aww thank you 🤍for your kind words and support for being not afraid to share my thoughts . Always hard situation needs time to be fixed for me to speak and not feel overwhelmed
@practicalShip4438
A pleasure 💚
Me too mom just hate me alot
Whatever good I do to myself or any clothes or makeup I want to get she get it and then take it to herself and keep just insult me and the list go on.
I’m really sorry for you , just I want you to know that there is a lot of people facing the same exact problem and I’m one of them. Anything I do she want the same and if she don’t like or felt jealous she blame me like I’m the mistake of her decisions. BUT it’s okay my freind as long as we keep sharing our feelings here it might be helpful and healthy for us 🥹🫶🏻.
Thank you alot you made feel like someone finally understanding me ❤️❤️❤️
I’m always here for you , You’re really brave ❤️
I’m always here for you , You’re really brave ❤️
@willingLime7204
I feel your pain and I'm happy for you finding comfort and help here where counseling helps us move forward in our daily lives!
Exactly 🫶🏻
Cool down and change your behaviour and attitude with your mom. Give her time to readjust her frustrations at her age. Be cool, humble, kind, respectful and caring with your mom without expecting any return. I’m sure you will see the positives results of your actions. Realize Mom are the greatest Gift from Almighty and they also suffer from many mental pains like us so be positive with her and don’t react spontaneously on her any actions. Hope things will be changed soon. Try it.🙏
I did all of that changing behavior, being positive with her and etc. The result she always repeating the same scenario if she’s mad from my father and makes me like I’m the mistake of her actions, it’s very hard when you give love to your mom show her that you really care trying to fix our relationships just from my side while she’s living in her own world.
Comparing me with sister or brother by mentioning this to her mom like God creates kind soul for some kids while the others no and I was always pray to him gave me a girl that really kind to me you know how is the feelings when I hear this it really hurts like I mean you but not mention your name ..
Some Mothers who is like my Mom they will care about their kids only if they die that’s it . They don’t want to see their successes in life , listening to their problem, advising them in a good way regrets come later
I fully understand your pain but two wrong can not be right. The right is right.
You behave positive ignoring all her negativity and don’t expect her to reciprocate the same. The time will heal all past wounds due your positive attitude towards her. Like you see stones at beachside. Every passing wave wash them, clean them and polish them.